Quoting E☮M♥M♫A:" Exactly! I think that most people just assume that people with more kids are always on government assistance and that all their babies were unplanned. "
Couldn't agree more. We get so many looks in the stores because we have three little girls (we're almost 24 with 5, 4 and 6mo daughters) My husband works his butt off so we have a good life and I go to school full time; actually 8 days away from graduation
But so many judge us and if they'd ask, we own our home and are currently paying two car payments. That alone is a little over $1,200 a month. The only time we ever needed help (non-government) was when our old house caught fire 2 years ago and Red Cross helped us get a hotel until we closed on our home. We may be young and we may not have planned to have babies so early but it happened and we made it work. Screw the downers