re: ttc baby number four yes I said four lol

I know right people should think before they talk. Hello most people are smart enough to know if they can afford another baby just because we have alot of babies dont mean we have our hand out.

Quoting E☮M♥M♫A:" Exactly! I think that most people just assume that people with more kids are always on government assistance and that all their babies were unplanned. "

    Couldn't agree more. We get so many looks in the stores because we have three little girls (we're almost 24 with 5, 4 and 6mo daughters) My husband works his butt off so we have a good life and I go to school full time; actually 8 days away from graduation   But so many judge us and if they'd ask, we own our home and are currently paying two car payments. That alone is a little over $1,200 a month. The only time we ever needed help (non-government) was when our old house caught fire 2 years ago and Red Cross helped us get a hotel until we closed on our home. We may be young and we may not have planned to have babies so early but it happened and we made it work. Screw the downers  

Part of me kind of wants four, however I don't think that I will, I'm on my 3rd baby, second pregnancy in less than a year(first one resulted on mc) and ky two kids are getting up there in age and I don't want to raise kids for 30 years lol...my oldest will be 6 when this one is born...youngest almost 4

Well when me and my husband got togethere we both wanted a big family. Everyone is different depends on what u can handle and if you can afford another child. My husband grew up poor so he is all about makeing sure he gets enough for our family and then some. Im 24 and he is 26 we bought on first house three years ago and now have another house and that will be paid off in a couple months also then we still have our first house for back up money. We have two big suvs paid for. No credit cards no major bills. Our bigest bill is food lol I spend 300 at walmart a week. Need to look into getting some chicken, pigs, and cows. Well any one else with a big family got some tips to cut downon spending would love to know ur secrets lol