Hysterectomy at age 25????

So as most of you know
i have 2 boys
the last one the placentia got stuck 10 days later had to have a D&C however that went bad ended up with 4 blood transfusions and an over night stay in the hospital.
17 mos later, i still have yet to have a DROP of blood for a cycle. Just pain every month with a ton of pressure.
Last month i had the HSG test, FAILED they said something is blocking my uterus.
Yesterday i had a HysteroSCOPY... FAILED said way to much scar tissue diagnosed me with Severe Ashermans syndrome.

She basically said, My best option might be Hysterectomy....

what do i do??? Im so lost... UGH i wanted another baby but now that option is taken away!!! =(

Quoting Brody&DeegansMAMA:" So as most of you know i have 2 boys the last one the placentia got stuck 10 days later had to have ... [snip!] ... might be Hysterectomy.... what do i do??? Im so lost... UGH i wanted another baby but now that option is taken away!!! =("

i am so sorry =/ i don't have any advice because i really don't know what you can do other than listen to the doctor =/

Im so sorry   I know its probably npt what you want to hear, but you can adopt in the future.... or surrogacy and freeze your eggs before the hysterectomy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chuck Norris:</b>" Im so sorry   I know its probably npt what you want to hear, but you can adopt in the future.... or surrogacy and freeze your eggs before the hysterectomy."</blockquote>



 

I am so sorry.

I have light long periods and had a situation similar to yours (My daughter is 3 and half) and I am thinking about getting it checked out. I am just so scared to see what they say.

get a second opinion and go from there.

I just had a partial hysterectomy. That is probably what you will have. It is not terrible because you keep your ovaries and your hormones.

I just wouldnt stress until you get a second opinion

My mom had one at 28. I'm her only biological child. I know the thought sucks having something you want snatched away, but it's not physically possible, from the sounds of it, already. And it'd help you feel better and function better for the 2 you have if the pain is so bad it inhibits normal actions each month.

im sorry hun   im right there with ya tho almost 25 and have to schedule mine...

ya i would care less if i had my girl tho , ally u have ur boys and u got ur girl. lol
i feel like i was supposed to have a girl and that chance got ripped out of my arms u kknow.

Quoting Brody&DeegansMAMA:" ya i would care less if i had my girl tho , ally u have ur boys and u got ur girl. lol i feel like i was supposed to have a girl and that chance got ripped out of my arms u kknow."

yea i know what ya mean. i feel that way even tho i do have 2 boys and a girl.
maybe there is a reason tho.. im sorry hun  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brody&DeegansMAMA:</b>" ya i would care less if i had my girl tho , ally u have ur boys and u got ur girl. lol i feel like i was supposed to have a girl and that chance got ripped out of my arms u kknow."</blockquote>




Yeah but, what is to say you would have got that girl? You can't look at life's what if's, it will only drive you crazy. Look at the positive, you will never have an ugly pair of panties in your drawer again. Lol. Seriously though, it is a hard thing to go thru and I know personally. However, there is always a silver lining to be found.