re: Child support? UHG!

YAY! This makes my day they should go after people! My insurance is too expensive to, but guess what I am forced to take it!!! If your employer offers it you should have to take it or don't have more kids you can't afford to provide insurance for.

<blockquote><b>Quoting skylasmommy:</b>" We have been using medicaid on our daughter for 2 years. First year was because I was pregnant. I am ... [snip!] ... get medical insurance. This is ridiculous. None of my friends who are married and have medicaid have to go through this. "</blockquote>




His job offers insurance. Medicaid is for those without the ability to gain insurance. I can see why they would charge a fee. We pay $1200/ month for family coverage thru my husbands work. That is rather costly but the alternative isn't any better. Medicaid isn't a right. It is there to help those in need. Not to use as a means to pay for planned family growth or to use rather than buying your own because you feel it is too expensive.

<blockquote><b>Quoting skylasmommy:</b>" We have been using medicaid on our daughter for 2 years. First year was because I was pregnant. I am ... [snip!] ... get medical insurance. This is ridiculous. None of my friends who are married and have medicaid have to go through this. "</


Double post

<blockquote><b>Quoting Susan Schultz:</b>" YAY! This makes my day they should go after people! My insurance is too expensive to, but guess what ... [snip!] ... it!!! If your employer offers it you should have to take it or don't have more kids you can't afford to provide insurance for."</blockquote>




Right!!!!! I am sick of people feeling entitled to the "system". Clearly they don't understand it is there to help those in need not an alternative to paying your own way. I personally think that our welfare system makes it easy for people to be lazy. There are minimal restrictions, no time limits, and honestly, not all those who a use the system get caught.

He only makes $10 a hour. None of our kids were planned. I was on birth control when I got pregnant with this baby.

I don't mind paying a fee I just don't think its fair to have him pay child support when we are married.

<blockquote><b>Quoting skylasmommy:</b>" He only makes $10 a hour. None of our kids were planned. I was on birth control when I got pregnant with ... [snip!] ... with this baby. I don't mind paying a fee I just don't think its fair to have him pay child support when we are married."</blockquote>




Then I guess either you need to be looking for a job, he needs to be looking for a better paying job or he needs a second job. $10/hr does not support a family!!!

You both need to be doing something actively to be getting ahead rather than collecting welfare and assistance. I don't want the "school" excuse either. With parenthood comes responsibility and accountability. Clearly you didn't figure it out the first time around so Medicaid is finding a way to force people to be responsible and accountable. When your spouse only makes $10/hr, you don't get to be a SAHM. You can't afford it! You can't afford to go to school and not work unless he is going to work a second job.

(My question mark on my computer doesn't work)


I recently had a miscarriage in mid June. I have not had a period yet. My doc told me that we could try right away if we wanted to sense I was so early. Well, I started taking opks which I posted a topic about a few weeks back. 4 days before today they were getting lighter and lighter then today I took one and it was dark again. So that's a bit confusing. 2 days before today I had some pink tint to my cm not even enough to use a panty liner. Today I have had none. I am hoping it was implantation bleeding. I didn't have it with my first that I know of so it's all new to me. I really don't know when I should test for pregnancy or not. Should I wait a week or is it safe to test now I have been feeling nauseous, severe headaches (got with my first), and gas (tmi I know). I also have some sharp dull pains (if that makes sense) in my right side. But it goes away within a few seconds. I do know this could be cause from stress. It's the tinted cm that has be getting excited. LOL

Has anyone had this before
When should I test
Is it possible to get pregnant right away after a miscarriage

Also, I DID have ovulation this month about 9 days ago.


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This was taken from your post in July. I thought you said you weren't trying  

This was just posted in January. It is very clear this second child was planned and not prevented.


Okay so, I'm pregnant with my second child. I am between 4-5 weeks. January 28th I went to the doc for a beta test since I did have a miscarriage in June 2012. He said my levels were at 65 and that he believes I am almost or I am 4 weeks. That being said I have very irregular periods.
JUNE-OCTOBER - No period
October 16 - Period
November 27 - Period
December 27 - Period

I believe I ovulated January 12th. I had a very faint almost not noticeable BFP on January 25th. I tested the next day with FMU and got a dark positive.
Doc couldn't find a sac yet but he did warn me most women don't this early not until their levels are around 1000. I have a doc appointment February 18th I am so excited to see my baby, I should be almost or at 7 weeks.

NOW my worries. Is 65 a good level for being 3-4 weeks? I know my levels are still doing good. My symptoms are increasing. I actually LOVE that I have morning sickness its just a constant reminder of my growing baby.

Also, every now and again not very often I get a sharp pain on either my right or left lower abdomen. More on my right. Is that normal? My first pregnancy I can't recall any pain like this. It doesn't hurt and it's bearable. There is no bleeding at all I didn't even have implantation bleeding.
I'm just extremely worried about miscarrying again.