Quoting 6 til Gwen:" I'd get blunt at this point. " Dude, i love you, but i have smurf to do and i can't hang out. Let's do something on x day.""
I actually had a WIC appointment about 2 weeks ago and as we were leaving the gym, she mentioned she was coming over and I was like, I have an appointment. She asked if she could just go with me. I told her that wouldn't be a good idea because it's always really packed in there. So that was that, I didn't think she was coming over...but she showed up later that day.
I probably am just going to have to be more blunt about it. I just don't want to hurt her feelings or something.