Quoting Lady GooGoo™:" You don't owe it to him to kill the baby that you seem to want. IMO, I don't think what he wants should ... [snip!] ... I mean, obviously you made a mistake not telling him you were off BC, but what's done is done. It's not his decision to make."
So women should completely disregard everything their SO wants? That's not fair, either.
*Not trying to debate in your thread, OP. But... I do believe you need to take his wants into consideration. And if you don't, ask yourself if you can handle him leaving and parenting, again, on your own.