re: Is it wrong?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addi's Momma:</b>"    He loves you. You need to figure out your feelings for him and if they aren't the same then ... [snip!] ... for you. It will only string the poor guy along. Also how involved is your ex when you have your daughter 7 days a week?"</blockquote>




He thinks his job is more important than mine I guess. I do everything for DD. His friend sees me trying my best and wants to help me. I work mon-fri but I can't afford everything on my own. And I don't have any family to move with.

I wouldn't feel bad for dating your ex is the one who messed up, not you. But the new guy will have to accept that him & your bd probably won't be best friends anymore. Good luck

Your ex is an ex for a reason.. If you have feelings for this guy like he does you, then it's time you talk about it with him and decide what is best. This is between you and him now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" If he is a wonderful man, great for you, great to be a second father to you daughter, treats you well ... [snip!] ... you well and genuinely cares. Screw your ex. I mean I can see the issues, I really can. BUT he's the one that blew it, not you."</blockquote>




That's what I keep telling myself. I didn't do anything wrong. It's not my fault he lost me.

Quoting BG Secrets:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" If he is a wonderful man, great ... [snip!] ... not you."</blockquote> That's what I keep telling myself. I didn't do anything wrong. It's not my fault he lost me."

I'd just give it some time and take it slow and see how it goes  

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Is it wrong if I want him to love me? I'd love to be with someone like him. He has great morals and is ... [snip!] ... and is a wonderful guy. But the only problem is he's my EXDH best friend. And as bad as EXDH hurt me I couldn't do that to him."</blockquote>




It's waaaaaay too soon and I would NOT get into a relationship with your ex husbands best friend. It's just --- wrong. There's plenty of good men out there. Give yourself time get on your feet and THEN start dating

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Is it wrong if I want him to love me? I'd love ... [snip!] ... friend. It's just --- wrong. There's plenty of good men out there. Give yourself time get on your feet and THEN start dating"

co-sign

as the saying goes.... it aint wrong, but it aint right either

Quoting BG Secrets:" My husband cheated on me and we separated. Getting a divorce. Anyways his best friend of many years has ... [snip!] ... things I just can't forgive him for. The love is gone. Sorry if this all jumbled up or whatever. I've been having a rough time."

You are lucky to have someone like that!

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Is it wrong if I want him to love me? I'd love ... [snip!] ... friend. It's just --- wrong. There's plenty of good men out there. Give yourself time get on your feet and THEN start dating"

How is it wrong? her husband messed things up! the friend sounds like an amazing guy, she is right about it being alittle to soon, but take your time and see where things go.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cassifrass Peters:</b>" How is it wrong? her husband messed things up! the friend sounds like an amazing guy, she is right about it being alittle to soon, but take your time and see where things go."</blockquote>




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