Vent: I'm so scared !! :'(

It just seems so crazy. One minute I'm fine and the baby is fine. Then the next minute all I get is bad news. Well once I was put on bed-rest I took the shot(s) for our little guys lung development. Which I'm glad about because my doc tells me he'll be surprise if I can go another whole week. Blood pressure is still high and and he's worried about the babies heart-rate. Plus me stressing will stress the baby. I'm just really scared. he talked to me and my husband about our baby being in the NICU. and what to be prepared for. What could go wrong. All I could do was just lay there and cry. I'm so scared. I feel as if I'm not doing my job. Why can't I carry Him to term. Why can't I do this. I'm suppose to be able to do this. My husband has been so good. he's been here every step of the way. He's constantly saying it's not my fault.That everything will be okay. God allows everything to happen for a reason. I just really pray I cant at least get another week or 2... Please stay in little guy. my docttor say if they can get my BP stable and just staying calm and getting rest that I could last another week. I just hope for the best. But I still can't help but be afraid...

Breathe mama. It's going to be OKAY! SOO many mamas have been where you are right now. Myself included. It's a roller coaster, but it will work out just fine. You have to calm yourself down. I understand you're scared, but baby is going to be okay. The longer he stays in the better, and that depends on your BP so slow your mind and breathe. Good luck, hun!

What you can do from your part is not stress and remain calm for the sake of your baby. Think positive and may God be with you in every step of the way. Best of luck hun and hope your little guy stay in as long as possible.

Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" What you can do from your part is not stress and remain calm for the sake of your baby. Think positive ... [snip!] ... and may God be with you in every step of the way. Best if luck hun and hope your little guy stay in as long as possible."

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Quoting Asher and Haddie's Mommy:" Breathe mama. It's going to be OKAY! SOO many mamas have been where you are right now. Myself included. ... [snip!] ... going to be okay. The longer he stays in the better, and that depends on your BP so slow your mind and breathe. Good luck, hun!"

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How many weeks are you?

Both of my lo's came early from pre-e too

Quoting .Colleen.:" How many weeks are you? Both of my lo's came early from pre-e too"

im 33 weeks..

Quoting Mel_brown:" It just seems so crazy. One minute I'm fine and the baby is fine. Then the next minute all I get is bad ... [snip!] ... staying calm and getting rest that I could last another week. I just hope for the best. But I still can't help but be afraid..."

Calm down hunny, you need to breathe and think happy thoughts. I know what its like to be put on bed rest and being frantic about the safety of my baby. But the best thing you can do is practice your breathing, talk with baby and honestly watching movies that make you happy (for me it was watching Disney), or Id read and listen to music that made me happy. Keep positive, I know its easier said then done, but you really need to get yourself into the right mind set and it will help your blood pressure and it will have less stress on baby. Good luck mama keep us posted!!! PM me if you need to talk or anything!!!!

Hang in there. You and baby will be ok. Just relax as much as possible.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nae&Zoe's Mommy:</b>" Calm down hunny, you need to breathe and think happy thoughts. I know what its like to be put on bed ... [snip!] ... blood pressure and it will have less stress on baby. Good luck mama keep us posted!!! PM me if you need to talk or anything!!!!"</blockquote>




Thanks so much. I really appreciate it and I will  

<blockquote><b>Quoting lovemylittleladies:</b>" Hang in there. You and baby will be ok. Just relax as much as possible."</blockquote>




Thanks mama

Quoting Mel_brown:" im 33 weeks.."

I know every pregnancy/baby is different, but my son was born at 33 weeks and is a healthy 4 year old now.

If it makes you feel better, OP, my son was born at 35 weeks but had stopped developing at 30 due to IUGR and Pre-E. He was small, but otherwise perfectly healthy when he was born. He only had to stay in NICU for a few days to get his weight up to 4 lbs, He's almost 5 now and the healthiest kid ever! He never gets sick!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel_brown:</b>" It just seems so crazy. One minute I'm fine and the baby is fine. Then the next minute all I get is bad ... [snip!] ... staying calm and getting rest that I could last another week. I just hope for the best. But I still can't help but be afraid..."</blockquote>



I am so sorry you are going through this. I am sending my prayers to you and your family. I know it is hard but stay positive. Do something that will help you stay calm whether it be watching movies, reading books, mags, listening to music....do not blame yourself. Instead be proud that you created a beautiful baby..a life! If you ever need to talk to someone I'm here. Fb if you want.