Quoting Trixie7678:" nope thats creepy....unrealted question...why do people ask that you not quote?"so that you can go back and delete the OP
Quoting Sofia's Mummy♥:" no way. if the guy is supposed to be a dad to both kids it will just get ugly when you feel he should spend time with your kid. id rather an anonymous donor from a sperm bank."
Quoting Trixie7678:" Maybe I am being dense here, but why would you want to delete the OP?"Usually so family/friends/people the OP knows can't ever go back and read stuff.
Quoting I Stab People:" he is already a "dad" to your current kids tho. family dinners, family vacations, all together kind of like a plural marriage but without the sex. it was this way when you wernt single as well"