Should I..?

Don't Quote.





I wrote a letter detailing my feelings towards DH, how he doesn't listen to me when I come to him with problems, lack of communication, lack of support, feeling alone etc.

All things I have already told him before but he never responds. I'm fed up, I can't keep living like this. I've been in such a deep depression since August/September.

Should I give it to him? Tear it up? Or not give it to him and give it to my therapist when I get one? I don't want to make things worse, but I feel like my voice isn't being heard and I'm not being taken seriously. There's no cussing or anything and I'd like to think it's a very honest, civil letter...

I did that a couple of times but I left the book on the bed
I guess my subconcious wanted him to find it lol
and he did and wrote me one back lol and we worked some stuff out.

Maybe just leave it out so he reads it?
Do you think he will get mad? or will it help?

Quoting ♥ laura-marie + 1:" I did that a couple of times but I left the book on the bed I guess my subconcious wanted him to find ... [snip!] ... back lol and we worked some stuff out. Maybe just leave it out so he reads it? Do you think he will get mad? or will it help?"

He doesn't get mad when I tell him things, but he never addresses them either. I feel like a crazy person. He doesn't think anything is wrong and I tell him over and over again- it's always one sided, e never says anything back about it and the issues never get fixed. He's super non-confrontational.

I would give it to him. It's not fair for you to feel that way. Maybe it'll help?

Quoting Squid Kid:" He doesn't get mad when I tell him things, but he never addresses them either. I feel like a crazy person. ... [snip!] ... it's always one sided, e never says anything back about it and the issues never get fixed. He's super non-confrontational."

Yeah my boyfriend was just a dipsmurf lol he just was always in the right and didnt understand why i got upset about stuff.
I wrote him a couple of letters and they worked.
If your fella is a good guy then leave the letters out and see what happens =] the worst that happens is it stays as it is and you try something else.

From time to time I write my DH notes explaining my feelings that he either ignores when I tell him or I just can't say. It makes it easier to write it down. I'd do what Laura Marie says and leave it out for him to find. This way he can find it by himself and have time to read it and think about everything. And I hope it changes things for you dear.

I find that if my SO isn't listening to how I feel, letters help. I've only had to do it a couple times, and they were detailed. It seems that he understands better, and I'm able to explain myself better, when I explain it out that way. I'd say give it to him, especially because you say it's civil! As long as you're not going off on a big rant on him, it will probably help him understand!