re: Like Pulling teeth *venting here*

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" If you're doing smurf, he needs to be a father. He didn't impregnate you so he could be a courier from the crib to you, he impregnated you to be a parent and parent his child. "</blockquote>

Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Canestrale:</b>" Boycott anything you do for him Laundry, blow ... [snip!] ... This situation however....there isn't much reasoning when he starts getting "tired" he turns into a giant baby either way"

I guess he doesn't want you to respond to positive things?

He's not a child. He needs to respond to reality.

Gah just rambling really now...guess I will send him a long text tomorrow about this for him to read at work  . Thanks for listening ladies  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" I guess he doesn't want you to respond to positive things? He's not a child. He needs to respond to

Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" I guess he doesn't want you to respond to ... [snip!] ... I was meaning more...nvm...I've been reading this relationship communication book and the terms just kind of slipped out"

Does he care about relationship communication or are you doing this to try and help your relationship when you're not the problem?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Does he care about relationship communication or are you doing this to try and help your relationship when you're not the

Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Does he care about relationship communication ... [snip!] ... been working on rewording what I want to say...and he says he is trying but its hard to see it when smurf like this happens."

Can you think of one time where he has tried at all?

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Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Can you think of one time where he has tried ... [snip!] ... that we don't talk about it again. Its honestly gotten so frustrating for me I have stopped bringing the quality time thing up"

You had a lot of input bur didn't answer the question at all....

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