Im never helping anyone again!

This is just a vent.

So about 4 weeks ago this chick I know who has four kids texts me asking can she come stay with SO and I because she doesnt have her house anymore.
I replied what do you mean you dont have your house anymore. ( she had a homeswest house aka state housing, public housing whatever you call it were you are I dont know) its cheap rent and you'd have to do something really and continuesly to get evicted) all 4 of her kids have been removed from her care and live in foster homes. So when she asked to come stay with me I said No sorry I dont have enough room. I then asked her why she doesnt have her house no more and she said long story and refused to explain further.

Anyway a couple days later she asked to borrow $50 so I said yes against my better judgement because she said she would pay it back the next day. still havent got my money back and sick of her excuses.
Anyway on the day I lent her $50 I asked her again about her house she was vague and still said long story, so i decided to go for a drive past were she used to live and check it out..,

Go past pull in the drive way walk up to the door.. whats on the door? Eviction notice and the door handle has a hole were they have removed the handles so she cant go back.

And what caused me to get really angry today is she had the cheek to ask me again to borrow money and drive her around. Ah no way! I am not helping anyone again if thats what they do!

Yeaaaah, seems fishy to me that she wasn't willing to explain. Sorry momma...

How about you just stop helping people who have lost all of their children and their home due to their bad behavior? That would probably be a more logical reaction.

Quoting Red Bottom:" How about you just stop helping people who have lost all of their children and their home due to their bad behavior? That would probably be a more logical reaction. "

Well I didnt know she had been evicted until I went there and seen the eviction notice. But when I realised she had been kicked out I just got angry because She had a good 4 bedroom 2 bathroom homeswest house in a alright area and alot of people would love a house like that she wouldnt of had to pay smurf all in rent, your pathetic if you get evicted from homeswest honestly.

and as for the kids Id known they had been in foster care.

I dont know I guess I am stupid for attempting to help her :/

Quoting SheldonsMummy  :" Well I didnt know she had been evicted until I went there and seen the eviction notice. But when I ... [snip!] ... and as for the kids Id known they had been in foster care. I dont know I guess I am stupid for attempting to help her :/"

She had each of her kids taken from her....at what point did it occur to you that she's probably not someone to give money to?

Quoting SheldonsMummy  :" Well I didnt know she had been evicted until I went there and seen the eviction notice. But when I ... [snip!] ... and as for the kids Id known they had been in foster care. I dont know I guess I am stupid for attempting to help her :/"

You're not stupid, but I'd definitely be getting my money back.