Quoting BabyMakinMachine.:" No, but I honestly don't believe that was the cause. I spontaneously ruptured with DS1 at 36w5d"

But it very well could have been....

Quoting Zombie Mom ✄:" We never had an abusive relationship for 5 years. Then he pissed me off so bad I threw a toy at him when ... [snip!] ... of hurting each other I just tell him "man i really wanna sock you in the face right now, your being a god damn DICK!!!" lol"

Tony slapped my upper arm once.... not even hard and it was when I smacked him across the face.... we almost broke up that night. That fight was BAD. What you are describing.... I'm sorry hun but I don't know how you stay, I dont know how you LAUGH about it.

Quoting Red Bottom:" But it very well could have been...."

I know

DH has never put his hands on me. My husband rarely raises his voice and he never calls me names unless it's in a playful manner.

I have hit him with his phone before, but it wasn't exactly on purpose. We were arguing and I threw his phone, meaning to throw it on the bed that he was laying on, and I hit him in the head pretty hard. He had a knot on his head for a few days and I felt horrible. Other than that, no.

I was making a pb and j sandwich when I was pregnant....extremely emotional. I don't remember what he said but I got so angry I smashed the sandwich and tried to leave....he cornered me and I slapped/pushed his chest...covered him with peanut butter. He laughs about it now...I still feel bad.

He's smacked a phone out of my hand once.

we were drunk and he tried to move me off a couch after an arguement but because I wouldn't move he picked the couch up and I fell onto a table. Straight away he dropped the couch and was apologising because he didn't think I was going to fall like I did.
I wanted to leave but my mum said people make mistakes and he came round the next day and apologised.
I threw a phone at his face accidently when I thought he was texting another girl. meant to just throw it at his chest or something but it hit his nose lol
this all happened within the first year of our relationship.
we have been together 3 and a half years now and nothing like that has ever happened. and when I had our baby boy he doesn't shout or anything anymore. I'm a really calm person and everyone says im good for him becuase he's never been so nice and calm before me.

When I was going through my mental breakdown and hoarding issue I was extremely verbally and mentally abusive. After about 6 months SO snapped and started holding me by the throat to get me to shut up. One day when I was trying to slit my wrists he threw me on the bed and restrained me ... I kept telling him to 'be a man and hit me' ... so he ended up backhanding me. He's never done anything since

I punched him in the back once..he threw a deck of cards at me once and it cut my lip and he's restrained me before...this was years ago..we've been together along time and I honestly can't see either of us doingt something like that ever again

Quoting bbbt:" I thought this might be triggering for some, so that's why I put the warning. Anyway, have you ever ... [snip!] ... you're currently in a relationship with, not people from the past. And by hit, I mean striking out of anger, nothing playful."

My husband and I have never been physically abusive to each other, we have talked not so nice to each other though not in a cussing way but I hate when we yell at each other. I have pushed my husband from trying to get past me to walk out. He overwhelms me when he screams at me and when Im trying to get a word in over him he tries to walk out of the house and I get pissed and shove him back so he will listen to what I have to say. Its not in a violent kinda way.

Nope. The only hitting we do is completely accidental (I cracked his ribs while we were sleeping) or playful.

Ok for the person who said something about how it takes women years to call the cops that is not always their fault my fiancé n I have had a lot of issues he has hit me choked me bashed my head off stuff n every time I tried to call the cops he smashed my phone he has replaced 4 of my phones from us fighting leaving me with no way to contact the police so it's not that we don't always have the guts to it can be cuz we have no way to now we don't fight we don't even yell at each other I left for a few months n he got help I came back cuz I knew the person he could be he just needed to sort out his problems

<blockquote><b>Quoting kaz86:</b>" Ok for the person who said something about how it takes women years to call the cops that is not always ... [snip!] ... I left for a few months n he got help I came back cuz I knew the person he could be he just needed to sort out his problems"</blockquote>




This proves my point further. She had the means to call the cops and just wasted it.

I was in an abusive relationship before I met dh. So if I felt threatened or in a bad situation with dh I would start swinging. Took me a while to realize I wad now the abuser.

Never on purpose no. We've said some very mean things to each other. But we're working on that.

The only times anything happened was one night I tossed my phone on the bed, for him to put on the nightstand. It bounced up and hit his nose. Then before we found out I was pregnant with DD I got really sick. We were walking and I got dizzy and almost fell. He tried to catch me ad his elbow caught my lip and busted it. But he was trying to help me, not hurt me.

Only once, it was about two years ago, we had just lost our son, we were going through a lot of things and fighting all the time.. we got into a really heated argument one morning and I just started punching him. It didn't hurt him.. he's 6'2" and about 200 pounds, he just stood there and let me get my frustration out. I got even more frustrated and jumped on him, he tried pulling me off and I fell down, he instantly helped me up and apologized. He would never lay a hand on me, no matter how upset he was, and I don't think I'd ever do that again.. it was just an extremely difficult time for the both of us.