re: what do you do when your SO/DH does something wrong?

Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I'm a full time student. I have nothing but what he gives me. If he leaves the state then how will ... [snip!] ... then get a full time job? I know there are sacrifices that need to be made, but when do the sacrifices outweigh the benefits?"

A pell grant and student loans for your bills and paying for school. Your school would be free having a child and you can apply to have your child care paid for by the government in your situation.

You think its' going to get EASIER to leave him? Has that mentality been working out for you?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" A pell grant and student loans for your bills and paying for school. Your school would be free having ... [snip!] ... government in your situation. You think its' going to get EASIER to leave him? Has that mentality been working out for you?"</blockquote>

No, it hasn't. These kinds of decisions aren't that to be made lightly though. I won't make it final until I've got a plan

Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" A pell grant and student loans for your bills ... [snip!] ... No, it hasn't. These kinds of decisions aren't that to be made lightly though. I won't make it final until I've got a plan"

And how much longer are you going to put off making a plan?

It's the other way at my house lol
I do everything fine and he doesn nothing BUT he will nitpick over stupid things!
I do all the washing and cleaning but he'll bitch about suds being on the glasses when they are in the draining bored.
Or not taking the plastic lids of plastic bottles for recycling.....the whole thing is smurfing plastic!!!! haha
I just tell him if he wants it done his way then he should pay the rent and bills lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" And how much longer are you going to put off making a plan?"</blockquote>




I'm not putting it off, its in the making. the credit union I belong to has student loans but the people they use make you have a cosigner. I'm in the process of trying to find one that doesn't. I'll be done at my current school in may so I don't want to take one out through them just to take one out somewhere else for my 2 year program.

just seen that the convo has gone off the topic so sorry about that.

I hope you make the right decision babe and do whatever you need to be happy for you and your little boy.
good luck with everything.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ laura-marie + 1:</b>" just seen that the convo has gone off the topic so sorry about that. I hope you make the right decision ... [snip!] ... you make the right decision babe and do whatever you need to be happy for you and your little boy. good luck with everything."</blockquote>



Thank you.