Quoting A&J. ♥:" It's been almost two years since my ex and I broke up. I've dated since then but it's not the same. I ... [snip!] ... and held and waking up next to him. I want to experience that with someone else someday but I'm scared I never will again :-("I promise hun it will go away. Have you ever thought maybe its not him that your in love with but you want to have that connection with someone again. I always thought I wanted my ex back, but like you said in your relationship he treated me terribly. What I really wanted was that feeling of the jitters of that new found love, having that new romance with all the cuddling and kissing and going gaga over each other. Sometimes we think we miss the person but really its the honeymoon stage we miss.