re: I just need to get this out

Quoting BG Secrets:" I knew someone was going to blame me for it and I shouldnt have posted but it was worth a shot. Thanks anyway."

You are hella defensive and need to chill out.

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I knew someone was going to blame me for it and I shouldnt have posted but it was worth a shot. Thanks anyway."</blockquote>

You did say that you started it most of the time. I still think you should leave him though.

Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" Man the worse I ever did was throw a phone ... [snip!] ... aide ans threw it in my face."</blockquote> Yikes. So he is physically abusive then? Why don't you call the cops on him?"

Because I know it would just start more smurf than it would solve. One because I did before and the cops made me out to just be the pissed off girlfriend. then there was the time I just TOLD him I was going to but wasn't and he had me thrown out of the house. It was this whole big thing. I have it in my medical records from when I was pregnant with DS and he drug me across the floor. They wanted me to file a police report but I didn't so the doctor made a note in the records in case I changed my mind.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" Because I know it would just start more smurf than it would solve. One because I did before and the cops ... [snip!] ... floor. They wanted me to file a police report but I didn't so the doctor made a note in the records in case I changed my mind."</blockquote>

I have read a few of your posts and I think it would do you some good to call the cops and go through with pressing charges on him. You would have proof and could get into a shelter.