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I'd tell him if he gets you pregnant doing things the way he wants he better be prepared for another baby.

why cant you go on birth control? and i think it would be bad to get knocked up on purpose

If he doesn't want to use condoms and you get pregnant there's not much he do there I guess.

But I would wait and have as many conversations as you can about it, and if he is SET on not wanting another child then a decision needs to be made between you two.

He shouldn't be tricked into another child if he doesn't want one, that's terrible IMO, but if he isn't preventing it either then..meh..

Quoting kate & tilly:" I'd tell him if he gets you pregnant doing things the way he wants he better be prepared for another baby."

He keeps saying "I won't get you pregnant" blah blah blah but it's also really frustrating for me. He KNOWS I want another child but he's not ready yet he keeps torturing me every month by trying to have unprotected sex while I'm fertile.  

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" If he doesn't want to use condoms and you get pregnant there's not much he do there I guess. But I ... [snip!] ... be tricked into another child if he doesn't want one, that's terrible IMO, but if he isn't preventing it either then..meh.."

Is it really a trick though? If I say "Use a condom, I'm fertile" and he says "No" and I don't fight him?

ETA: We plan on TTC once I get some more weight off, hopefully starting this August.

Figure out a contraceptive since you mutually don't want another child at this point.

Quoting DJ Tanner:" Figure out a contraceptive since you mutually don't want another child at this point."

Condoms are our only option for BC and I DO want another child.

He's not being very logical.

SO: I don't want another baby
You: Okay well use a condom I'm fertile right now
SO: No I don't want to use a condom. But I just won't get you pregnant.

Like, is he having conversations with his sperm or something? I mean I'd just sit him down and be like "Look, you don't want another baby but neither do you want to use condoms. I'm telling you I'm fertile...and I'm telling you upfront I'm not going to keep reminding you." That would be me though