Bridesmaid sleeping with your ex at the bach party...

So my bacherollette party was a few days ago. Which normally consists of only girls, yet my lovely maid of honor invited her boyfriend, my ex from a really crappy and dramatic breakup, and some random guy that I barely knew. At first it was just us girls and everything was going great, then the guys showed up...

I didn't really mind, it was still fun... until three of the girls left leaving me, my maid of honor, one of my bridesmaids, and three guys there. It was supposed to be an all girl sleepover.

So then I pretty much got ignored for the rest of the night. My bridesmaid was laying all over my ex because she was 'sick' (mind you, shes married and has a three month old baby), and my maid of honor was cuddled up to her fiance with the random guy chillin with them also. So I'm laying on the floor by myself and no one even talked to me, it was like I wasn't there.

So I went into my bridesmaids bedroom (it was at her apartment), and laid down. No one came in to see what was up, no one cared. (But I was just going in there to sleep anyways, it wasn't to try and bait them). Anyways, I wake up at 3 am (only two hours later), to everyone laughing and talking and I heard my bridesmaid say "well I have a really smurffy marriage sooo..." and then some other crude remarks and I realized she had sex with my ex. I was beyond livid, after getting outcasted from everyone, to my bridesmaid sleeping with my ex who I had a really bunpy break up with, and everything I was just sooo done. Throughout the night she even kept asking me if I was alright or if I was mad at her because she kept cuddling up to him, which honestly I didn't care and didn't even notice til she pointed it out.

My dilema is, my weddings in 5 days. Honestly I don't want her in it. From things I heard from my maid of honor, to my bridesmaid being two faced with what she says to me and then to my maid of honor, I'm just done. But is it really worth kicking her out?:/ I can't decide.

Her husband keeps posting stuff on facebook about being so happy with his little family and his beautiful wife too and obviously he has no idea and I feel terrible....   blah

...Kick her ass out!! It's your wedding. Don't have some rude bitch like that in your wedding. She obviously doesn't care about you as a friend.

Kick her out and let her explain to her husband as to why she was kicked out.

Quoting RissaBbyGurl:" So my bacherollette party was a few days ago. Which normally consists of only girls, yet my lovely maid ... [snip!] ... being so happy with his little family and his beautiful wife too and obviously he has no idea and I feel terrible....   blah"

Do you know she had sex with him that night? Or maybe a long time ago before you two were together and she just didn't say anything about it?

I would!! I wouldn't want to look at my pics and have her there.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" Do you know she had sex with him that night? Or maybe a long time ago before you two were together and she just didn't say anything about it? "

Sadly, I'm positive they had sex. She even admitted to it. And tried to make herself look better by saying that a lof of her close friends have slept with her ex's. Bioooootch

Quoting RissaBbyGurl:" Sadly, I'm positive they had sex. She even admitted to it. And tried to make herself look better by saying that a lof of her close friends have slept with her ex's. Bioooootch"

Okay, then yeah, I'd kick her out. Honestly though, she'd probably tell her husband some bullsmurf excuse why she was kicked out, and probably make you out to be a total bitch.

I had something similar with my MOH.

Quoting RissaBbyGurl:" Sadly, I'm positive they had sex. She even admitted to it. And tried to make herself look better by saying that a lof of her close friends have slept with her ex's. Bioooootch"

She slept with him while you guys were broken up right?

Kick her ass out!!!!!!

I would have a conversation with her about it, but yeah I'd kick her out. I wouldn't want to feel forced into sharing such a special day with someone like that. Obviously she wasn't very worried about your feelings, plus she cheated on her husband with him.

I read this to my sister and she said she agrees but she'd take it a step further and tell her husband. I'd probably try not to get in that drama myself unless he was also my friend.

Quoting Klaus:" I would have a conversation with her about it, but yeah I'd kick her out. I wouldn't want to feel forced ... [snip!] ... take it a step further and tell her husband. I'd probably try not to get in that drama myself unless he was also my friend."

I wouldn't do that.

It wouldn't be my place, IMO.

Quoting Cersei ™:" She slept with him while you guys were broken up right?"

Yes, she did it was few days ago at my bacherolette party. This was a guy that I had a miscarriage with and everything, so he wasn't just an ex. But it wasn't even the fact that she had sex with him, it was just the fact that she kept trying to assure me nothing was going on and lying to me and crap even when i didn't expect annnything. And then was two faced after  

Quoting Klaus:" I would have a conversation with her about it, but yeah I'd kick her out. I wouldn't want to feel forced ... [snip!] ... take it a step further and tell her husband. I'd probably try not to get in that drama myself unless he was also my friend."

I agree. I wouldn't want to share my special day with her. What a crappy situation  

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" I wouldn't do that. It wouldn't be my place, IMO. "

Yeah I can't do that, as much as I might want to:/ he will find out eventually

Quoting RissaBbyGurl:" Yes, she did it was few days ago at my bacherolette party. This was a guy that I had a miscarriage ... [snip!] ... assure me nothing was going on and lying to me and crap even when i didn't expect annnything. And then was two faced after  "

Yeah that is wrong. How long have you two been friends for? I would definitely try to sit down with her and talk it out. Is it possible that if you did kick her out of your wedding that you would regret it later?

I think the bigger issue is her cheating on her husband at your bacherlorette party. Scummy thing to do!