Why things have to be so complicated...

I ended things with the guy I was seeing, it was a LDR. Well, my last trip to see him was less than a month ago and he lives in my hometown. Well, I went to see some family and got some old pics of my family and me....a whole lot of them....I left them in his car by mistake. I had asked for the pics the very next day I left and he said he would send it. Well, it has been a while and a few days since I broke it off. I sent him a text yesterday asking for them and he didn't respond but since he claims that he doesn't get all his texts, I called today but he didn't answer.

Now, I have no idea how to go about this. I really want my pictures, they are important to me. Do I just give him time? I don't want time...I don't want anything tying us together. Right now I'm still in the idc mood about this whole situation and I don't want to speak to him whenever I start to feel bad. I just want to really move on and not have to speak to him later on.

Wwyd?

there isn't really anything you can do?

ask once a day... and just hope he grows up

Go to his house and get the pictures.

Quoting Kelly +2 ERF/EH!:" Go to his house and get the pictures."

Lol he lives in NY..

All you can do is ask him again. Unless you're willing to let the pictures go.  

How did he take the break up? He may be using the pictures as a way to see you again....

Quoting bugs mommy☮:" there isn't really anything you can do? ask once a day... and just hope he grows up "

I didn't know if I should keep asking or wait it out.

Hmmmm can you message him on FB? You might have to be annoying and keep trying to contact him.
Then you can cut off all ties.

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Lol he lives in NY.."

Oh okay, you said he lives in my hometown, so I assumed you two lived...in the same town.

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" I ended things with the guy I was seeing, it was a LDR. Well, my last trip to see him was less than a ... [snip!] ... want to speak to him whenever I start to feel bad. I just want to really move on and not have to speak to him later on. Wwyd?"

do not contact him
every time you text or call, he'll think it's for him, not the pics
either forget the pics, or ask a mutual friend to go by there in person and try to get them

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" I didn't know if I should keep asking or wait it out."

keep asking, especially if he isn't doing it!
just send the same exact text each day and be friendly about

"Hey was just wondering if you were able to send my pictures to me today? Let me know, Thanks."

Quoting regina_margot:" do not contact him every time you text or call, he'll think it's for him, not the pics either forget the pics, or ask a mutual friend to go by there in person and try to get them"

That's immature..

She's clearly asking for the pictures, not like she's texting him making small talk and smurf.

Quoting loser mom:" All you can do is ask him again. Unless you're willing to let the pictures go.   How did he take the break up? He may be using the pictures as a way to see you again.... "

Idk...I think he wanted it. I felt like he was pushing me away so I ended it through a text. I know that probably shouldn't have been the best way to do it but he barely called and was always busy. When I spoke to him about being busy he blamed it on work, saying he was really stressed. But the lack of communication was just too much, it was to a point that it didn't seem like a relationship.

Quoting Regina George ♡:" Hmmmm can you message him on FB? You might have to be annoying and keep trying to contact him. Then you can cut off all ties. "

We don't even have each other on FB. I can still message him...I might email him before I do fb.

Quoting Regina George ♡:" That's immature.. She's clearly asking for the pictures, not like she's texting him making small talk and smurf. "

Yeah I'm not at all...

I don't want him to think it's about him, that's why idk if to reach him. It pisses me off that he is being such an ass, especially because he was the one that talked about if things didn't work out we should stay as friends. I don't want to be his friend now but this is really unnecessary.

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Idk...I think he wanted it. I felt like he was pushing me away so I ended it through a text. I know ... [snip!] ... really stressed. But the lack of communication was just too much, it was to a point that it didn't seem like a relationship."

Ahh, gotcha.

That's tough. But I agree that email is better than FB. I might even be tempted to type out that all you want is the pictures, you're not interested in rekindling any romance.