Jerk

I called Dh earlier and asked him to pick up something for dinner because he won't give me money to go to the store and we are about out of food. Last night I resorted to eating 2 year old romen noodles that were here from before I moved in I was so hungry and I hate romen noodles in general. Well he goes and gets the kids some tv dinners and that is it. I am smurfing hungry I wanted something I could eat too. It is no wonder my baby refuses to nurse. I got nothing in my boobs to give him! he gets himself food and the kids food but it is pretty much just smurf you to me. Then he acts pissed the whole 5 minutes he is here even though I am being nice to him then storms off with out another word. God I smurfing hate my life. I wish I could leave it isn't fair.

You can leave. There's always ways.

I wish you would leave this douche bag already.

Why won't he take you to the store?

Seriously? He won't buy you food AND you're breastfeeding? Uh this dude is more then a jerk...you should figure out a way to get out of there ASAP.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" You can leave. There's always ways."

Yeah everyone says that but I have yet to hear ONE realistic option as of how to do that that I haven't already thought of and/or tried.

This is beyond him being a jerk. This is him being abusive and neglectful.

If you guys are as bad off money wise as you're making it sound, don't you qualify for food stamps? Or at least WIC??

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Yeah everyone says that but I have yet to hear ONE realistic option as of how to do that that I haven't already thought of and/or tried."

where there's a will, there's a way.

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Yeah everyone says that but I have yet to hear ONE realistic option as of how to do that that I haven't already thought of and/or tried."

Get a job & move out. That might sound hard, but it's totally possible.
If you become homeless there are shelters that will help you. Cash assistance, the homeless program, food stamps, take & use all of the public assistance resources they give you. There is ALWAYS a way out if you're willing to work for it (& do without stuff in the meantime)... Don't give up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ma ♥:</b>" If you guys are as bad off money wise as you're making it sound, don't you qualify for food stamps? Or at least WIC??"</blockquote>




He has money

Quoting Forrest Bondurant &hearts:" Why won't he take you to the store?"

He won't even talk to me hardly right now. If i were to say I am hungry and we need food he would say we have food in the house. But we really don't and what we do have I have to try and concoct something for DS for lunch with every day. At least until DH decides to stop being an ass whole.

Oh wow..I'm sorry, hun.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" He won't even talk to me hardly right now. If i were to say I am hungry and we need food he would say ... [snip!] ... have I have to try and concoct something for DS for lunch with every day. At least until DH decides to stop being an ass whole."</blockquote>




Can you go to the store by yourself?

I<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" Yeah everyone says that but I have yet to hear ONE realistic option as of how to do that that I haven't already thought of and/or tried."</blockquote>



I don't know how it is where you are but here in PA if you are in an abusive relationship welfare will help you get out. Get you into housing, help find you a job, help with daycare/head start program, food stamps, pretty much anything to get you going and away from that situation.