Quoting GrumpsMama.:" I believe, the limit here in Oklahoma is 12 weeks. You also have to hear & see the ultrasounds before you get an abortion. Along with a couple consoling sessions. "
Has it always been that way or is this new? My sister had an abortion in Tulsa and didn't have to receive counseling. She was in, out, and home within a few hours.
OP, I feel safe with the no abortion after 20 weeks. Most women don't wait that long to receive an abortion. The 12 week, however, is a little iffy in my opinion.
Being concerned about right's being taken away is never an overreaction.