I was watching this show and the mother died during childbirth and it just got me thinking...


Has anyone ever thought about what would happen if you died during childbirth??

I know this is a depressing story. It just made me worry about if I died...

<blockquote><b>Quoting bearcavefactory:</b>" I was watching this show and the mother died during childbirth and it just got me thinking... Has ... [snip!] ... what would happen if you died during childbirth?? I know this is a depressing story. It just made me worry about if I died..."</blockquote>




My hubby & i were talking about this yesterday . I was like " please dont let me die" lol . Im scared of the worst always.

Yes, I did when I was pregnant my fear was that DH would have to pick between saving me or the baby and when I brought it up he said he would save me we could have kids later I started crying lol I wanted him to say the baby.

I do think about it occasionally, but I try not to dwell on it. That being said, I can't die. SO is completely hopeless with these kids, my mom is almost 70 and has already raised 9 kids, which would mean MIL would probably have a hand in helping raise them and I'll be damned if I let that happen. Haha!

That's how I am... It worries the hell out of me. My fiance doesn't like talking about. I think he doesn't wanna think about it. And I understand that, but we need to be prepared for the worst.

     

Quoting ρiηkie ρie:" I do think about it occasionally, but I try not to dwell on it. That being said, I can't die. SO is completely ... [snip!] ... 9 kids, which would mean MIL would probably have a hand in helping raise them and I'll be damned if I let that happen. Haha! "

Yea, Erik refusing to change diapers. So i don't know how'd he do it without me. And I don't want my mom to raise my kids. Hell, I barely want her around them at all. ((((long story))))

When we started talking about when we have kids, we decided I'll change diapers, and he can deal with throw up. I can't do throw up. Hell, my throw up makes me throw up more...

Ugh. It's just sad to see that happen on tv. I know its not real, but it doesn't make it break your heart any less.  

I think it crosseseveryones mind. I think the same thi gfrom time to time when i get in the car. Like what IF this is the last time. New mexico has sooo many DUI and dru driving accidents, its nuts...

It just seems like... I don't know. The world is more dangerous than when I was little. Now, all I hear on the news is something bad. I get sadder than most people do about things.

It's just something I think about all the time.
I'll have a hard time when I get pregnant though cause of my tendencies to get depressed. Depression isn't good for the baby..

Quoting bearcavefactory:" Yea, Erik refusing to change diapers. So i don't know how'd he do it without me. And I don't want my ... [snip!] ... more... Ugh. It's just sad to see that happen on tv. I know its not real, but it doesn't make it break your heart any less.  "

Trust me, he'll change diapers. SO said the same thing before we had kids, once DD was born though he knew it had to be done and he sucked it up. Now he's a pro and doesn't even think about it. Lol. Once you have kids though you kind of become numb to all of that stuff. At this point, I see something "gross" and go "Whatever, I have kids." Haha.

And yeah, it is depressing. The good news is, thankfully it's pretty rare these days in real life.  

I'm used to gross stuff. Lol. Especially since my 6 month old puppy has yet to master not walking threw his own smurf and then getting it on m bed and clothes when I have to scrub poop off his paws. Boy is a mess, but I love him. If my babies are anything like him, I'm gonna be in for a crazy ride. I mean, I already would be. But a dog and a baby, teaming up against me in the name of poop. It's gonna stink. Literally.

Quoting bearcavefactory:" I'm used to gross stuff. Lol. Especially since my 6 month old puppy has yet to master not walking threw ... [snip!] ... ride. I mean, I already would be. But a dog and a baby, teaming up against me in the name of poop. It's gonna stink. Literally."

I was unaware of just how gross kids could be. I've since seen first hand and although not much bothers me, I'm still completely amazed sometimes. Lol. I find myself asking my oldest daughter, "Why?! Just... why?!" A lot. For all the gross though, it's worth it and I wouldn't change a thing. Well, maybe have DD play in her poop less, that'd be nice.  

People think it;s gross and bad parenting, but babies tend to eat their own poop. Haha. My brother did when he was a baby. But he would also pee in hole out in the yard so he's have mud to play in with his little gi joe dirt bikes and monster trucks.

We were both bad when it came to bath time. Right after we got out, one or both of us would go play out in the dirt. Hehe. That's what my mom gets for having us so close together.

Quoting Racheyy the babyy:" I was watching this show and the mother died during childbirth and it just got me thinking... Has ... [snip!] ... what would happen if you died during childbirth?? I know this is a depressing story. It just made me worry about if I died..."

The only relief I have about knowing if I did die during childbirth, my SO is an amazing man and our child WILL be raised right, even if I'm gone.
I'm terrified about this happening, actually. :/

Quoting Ariel Kubica:" The only relief I have about knowing if I did die during childbirth, my SO is an amazing man and our child WILL be raised right, even if I'm gone. I'm terrified about this happening, actually. :/"

I'm just glad it's something really normal to think about.

Quoting Racheyy the babyy:" I'm just glad it's something really normal to think about."

Yeah, no doubt girl.
GL with everything between you and your SO and whenever you guys do have a child, name her after me. (; lol