pregnant af!

Well..ive had two miscarriages followed by a successful. Pregnancy. I took a test yesterday..im pregnant..i think...making an appointment today...my husband and i have not decided whether we are going to tell everyone yet or not....wtd? I live with my mother so i sort of feel like not telling her would be lying and not just. Omission ..but she has a big mouth and would tell the family before we are ready....

Best of luck to you, in whatever you decide.

She's going to find out eventually anyways but if you're not comfortable telling her yet, there's nothing wrong with waiting until you're at a safer point in your pregnancy. I would however wait until you see your doctor and find out for sure before you say anything to anyone. It would suck to have your mom tell everyone you're pregnant and then have to explain when everyone starts asking questions if you're not, kwim?

I'm sorry. I'm having a hard time understanding why you titled this "pregnant as smurf". Anyways.....

Generally I wouldn't recommend telling anyone until 12 weeks. Especially if you have a history of miscarriage. Not to mention, I assume you'll be moving out of your mothers house since you were TTC. Would she be upset if age found out before you moved out?

Quoting Red Bottom:" I'm sorry. I'm having a hard time understanding why you titled this "pregnant as smurf". Anyways..... ... [snip!] ... assume you'll be moving out of your mothers house since you were TTC. Would she be upset if age found out before you moved out?"

was that the title?LMFAO
now its pregnant af, which doesnt make sense.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:</b>" was that the title?LMFAO now its pregnant af, which doesnt make sense."</blockquote>




AF means "as smurf".

Sigh.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:</b>" was that the title?LMFAO now its pregnant af, which doesnt make sense."</blockquote> AF means "as smurf". Sigh."

It also means aunt flo, which is what I thought she meant. It didn't make sense but a lot of thread titles make no sense. Lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ρiηkie ρie:</b>" It also means aunt flo, which is what I thought she meant. It didn't make sense but a lot of thread titles make no sense. Lol. "</blockquote>




I was confused at first too. Then figured it out lol.

Maybe she's EXCITED to be pregnant smfh

I'd wait. Given your history I'd wait until 12 weeks. If you know your mother can't keep secrets don't tell her either

Congratulations by the way  

<blockquote><b>Quoting *A&N's Mama*:</b>" Maybe she's EXCITED to be pregnant smfh I'd wait. Given your history I'd wait until 12 weeks. If you know your mother can't keep secrets don't tell her either"</blockquote>




I see you two both speak in code.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *A&N's Mama*:</b>" Maybe she's EXCITED to be pregnant smfh ... [snip!] ... If you know your mother can't keep secrets don't tell her either"</blockquote> I see you two both speak in code."

Yep. I'm fluent in bitch too ;)

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ axel sean n me:</b>" was that the title?LMFAO now its pregnant af, which doesnt make sense."</blockquote> AF means "as smurf". Sigh."

haha oops
i was thinking pregnant aunt flow  

<blockquote><b>Quoting *A&N's Mama*:</b>" Yep. I'm fluent in bitch too ;)"</blockquote>




One day you'll mature past that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting PANDORAX1:</b>" Well..ive had two miscarriages followed by a successful. Pregnancy. I took a test yesterday..im pregnant..i ... [snip!] ... telling her would be lying and not just. Omission ..but she has a big mouth and would tell the family before we are ready...."</blockquote>




Im 7 weeks no one knows yet. We havent told familys