Quoting Serial Mom ✄:" Sounds just like my 9 year old DD's paternal grandma. She makes up every excuse in the book for her son ... [snip!] ... yeah, I know how you feel. She blamed me for breaking her dear son's heart when I left him years ago. Everything was my fault."
OMG.... Yeah, she's a drug counselor yet not only condones but PROVOKES their drug abuse and mental issues. She told him and called my mom to tell her I had borderline personality disorder. I called her to tell her she hasn't had one conversation with me that would allow her to ever develop that analysis let alone assume it. Her excuse? That DB and I had been off and on..... I told her "yeah! Because he keeps cheating on me!" But I forgot, he cheats because he is unhappy.... it's not like he begged me not to leave him the last time... In her eyes, he did it all because he was unhappy. Wouldn't a normal person leave then or try to fix it and NOT CHEAT?! And that's only the smallest issue he has.