Quoting Carissa Biron:" I know I totally agree!! Like when someone posts their abortion story in the abortion forum, and they ... [snip!] ... oh so I can't voice my opinion? Well, no, you cant if its not to the benefit of the person posting! Isnt that a rule on bg?"
No, it's not a rule.
You can voice your opinion all you want. And yeah, I saw the thread you're talking about, her boyfriend WAS being an idiot. Basic anatomy will tell you that no, the baby will not see your penis as you have sex. He was looking for an excuse to not have sex with her, OR, he's a dumbass.
And please show me where any abortion survivor has been flat out bashed in the AS forum. That crap usually gets hidden right away, unless it's full of pro-life bullsmurf.