re: Is this abuse o.O

Quoting CokiMonsta:" I told him I was leaving Wednesday, his response was if you don't tell me who&where you are going I wont ... [snip!] ... with my mom and I'm going to tell her what happened, and she'll probably allow me to move back with her, if not make me. . ."

Be very careful until then, please. I think you should call your Mom now and talk to her about it. He's already abusive and now that he knows you're leaving.... it doesn't sit well with me.

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Be very careful until then, please. I think you should call your Mom now and talk to her about it. He's already abusive and now that he knows you're leaving.... it doesn't sit well with me."

I don't think he knows she is leaving for good just that she is going out with her mom.

OP good luck. When you go back for your stuff I would have the cops escort you or something. I would also make a police report ASAP.

Quoting ((-31 Weeks-)):" I'm not sure how you're even wondering if that's abuse or not.... you just need to leave...like, now."

   

Yes that's abuse. I would leave. That is really uncalled for. If he's pressing on your belly hard enough to make it hurt and be sensitive it could be enough to hurt baby. I'd would leave for sure before I got hurt or my baby got hurt. That's ridiculous.

If my husband ever did that, I'd knock his teeth down his smurfing throat. He sounds like an insecure, controlling dickface and yes, I would call that abuse. Leave before he gets worse. Don't make the same mistake my mother did.

Leave. Also, file for a domestic violence protective order and leave his name off the baby's birth certificate and give baby YOUR last name. Those were the best decisions I made when I was in that situation. That way even if he threatens to take the baby, he's forced to jump through far more hoops that cost far more money and that usually puts an end to lazy abusive smurfs attempts to intimidate you.

My mom is claiming I stole fashwash from her (wtf?!) and I'm not welcome back there. . . Which sucks because I definitely don't steal and that was kind of my last resort. .

<blockquote><b>Quoting CokiMonsta:</b>" My mom is claiming I stole fashwash from her (wtf?!) and I'm not welcome back there. . . Which sucks because I definitely don't steal and that was kind of my last resort. ."</blockquote>




Wtf? Your mom wont let you xome stay and get out of an abusive relationship because if facewash? Sounds like something my mom would do. Im so sorry. But theres options for you out there! There has to be an abuse hotline you can call. They will help you.

Update for those who cared.
My mom wasn't able to pick me up and I cried & cried for hours....because didn't tell my bf why I was crying he flipped smurf...
He shook me at some point and said One day, I'm going to be holding the baby and shake it just like this, break it's neck and it'll be your fault b/c you won't speak to me.

Needless to say I left him with a very blunt note with my thoughts and emotions & left the next day. He freaked out, questioning me but I gave him no info- when he realized I was seriously leaving he made me promise I would not cheat.

I can't stay with my mom just yet (though she's working on the babies room & demanding I stay w/her after it's born)
at some point this week will have to return.
As far as shelters go, I've been looking/calling around/researching since late last year with no luck.

<blockquote><b>Quoting CokiMonsta:</b>" Update for those who cared. My mom wasn't able to pick me up and I cried & cried for hours....because ... [snip!] ... will have to return. As far as shelters go, I've been looking/calling around/researching since late last year with no luck."</blockquote>




You really need to stay away from him and never look back. Whata psycho! Glad your looking for somewhere else to say, best of luck to you!

Quoting CokiMonsta:" Update for those who cared. My mom wasn't able to pick me up and I cried & cried for hours....because ... [snip!] ... will have to return. As far as shelters go, I've been looking/calling around/researching since late last year with no luck."

really do not go back without someone with you. police or someone..seriously. he is very abusive and obviously not in the right state of mind. He could really hurt you. especially not that he knows you are gone.

As above, many women are killed once they leave, it's the most dangerous time. Please never go near him alone again, and tell the police what he's done.