Quoting Lu⁺Freya:" He is a really good man (not just for this, of course, in general). I think maybe it's the shock and ... [snip!] ... wasn't part of the plan. He always says he wants another, we both do. Hopefully the shock will wear off in the weeks to come."
if it helps at all, rick was the same way with logan. we were still in college when i got pregnant, neither of us had real jobs. he was just like-steph, we cant do this...
i could not abort at that time, i just couldnt. i lost a baby years before and was still struggling immensely with that. there is no way at the time i could live with aborting though.
rick stuck with me, and at the first U/S he was just so happy. he fell in love lol. it is probably just the shock factor now, and it is a big thing to face for both of you. I hope your man comes around quickly. Good luck <3