re: Do you know a child that you really don't like to be around/

I just signed onto her facebook and she is telling people she is going to call the cops on them unless they talk to her. The sad thing is.... I can really see her call the cops on someone for an insane reason!

yup
my brother's wife's kids. all three of them. she doesn't have custody of the 2 older ones and they all want attention and are loud trying to get it. their mom wants to be friends and not a mom to all her kids and nothing her kids do is ever wrong. they make stupid comments constantly that are not related to the conversation and just are annoying. it sucks they come to holidays for real. the youngest is the same age as my daughter and she is just as bad if not worse. they feel she can not do anything wrong ever. they will see her do something she will say she didn't and they will say they believe her... they watched her do it. drives us crazy. she also whines constantly which is what a lot of kids do but they give in to her constantly. these kids take my kids toys and break them. i work hard for that stuff. i will tell them to not play with them, like my kids brand new ipads they got for christmas and she snuck and got them.
the oldest is 16 and came to my daughter's birthday party and acted like a little kid insisting she be involved in all the kid activities even though she is way too old and they are all little kids. the younger one stayed for my daughters birthday and was super upset that it wasn't her party and that it wasn't all about her. she actually said that to me. that it wasn't fair everyone wasn't doing what she wanted too. i was like its a party, they are doing what the group wants to do, not just what you want to do.
they kiss my son on the mouth every chance they can get and i tell them every single time to not do that. i don't say it but i don't know what they have.
there's a lot more to the story. i kept an open mind as much as i could but when i realized how sneaky they were and how the parents cover for them every single time i couldn't put up with it anymore. i know it makes me sound like a major bitch but i am just over putting up with their bad b ehavior and thinking they can do what they want

my hate my friends 4 year old. she's AWFUL.

she just turned 4, and had her party last weekend. well, not ONE child showed up... why you may ask? because Bella is a smurfing nightmare!!!! she didnt have ANY kids at her party. my own kids didnt want to go either, so we skipped it.. until my friend called crying that her party was 1 hr and 30 mins in and no kid showed up and her daughter was crying and she was crying... so i packed up my kiddos and went -- against my better judgement --- within 10 mins she has squirted a full water bottle all over my 2 year old, soaked him, to the point i had to take the clothes off and put them in my friends dryer (she lied and said he did it, then confessed she did) -- my 4 year old made her a card, and spent a lot of time on it, spelling everything out.. bella ripped it up into tiny pieces. she took BOTH of my kids pieces of pizza and shoved them in her face and ran off.. she hit both of my kids multiple times... now, icing on the cake... she took a bottle of glue and rubbed it into my 2 year olds hair, then poured glitter in it... she went ot her birthday cake and grabbed two huge handfulls of frosting off it it.. just SOOOOO smurfing bad -- kid is out of control... she's mean, liar, cruel... and fat! she's sooooo FAT because she only eats junkfood. i used to pass clothes down to her, now she's 2 sizes bigger than my daughter who's a year older.

i had my daughters party yesterday and i told my friend to please make sure bella is on her best behavior (i couldnt have a repeat of last weekend!!!) i was having my daughters entire preschool class, and didnt know many of the parents personally yet....

she blew up on me, calling me a smurfing stuck up smurf, and said she wasnt coming. haha. i was soooooooo relieved!!!!

I HATE THAT KIDDDDDDDDDDD!

your niece sounds pretty awful too!!!

Gosh..reading all these makes me think how these parents allow them to get this bad. How do they just put up with it on a daily basis?

Quoting Lauralie89:" Gosh..reading all these makes me think how these parents allow them to get this bad. How do they just put up with it on a daily basis?"

my friend allows bad behavior. sick.

her 4 year old also still sucks on binkies all day long... she cooked herself a package of hotdogs on the radiator last week and ate them all.. UGHHHHH

did i mention that i HATE HER?!

Quoting Lauralie89:" Gosh..reading all these makes me think how these parents allow them to get this bad. How do they just put up with it on a daily basis?"

I dont know how my sister does it. I just don't know. I feel bad for my sister, she IS a good Mom and person, I just think she's overwhelmed. My niece is just a terror. It sucks. And then I feel bad I even feel that way... she's family, ya know? But she really grinds my nerves!

I can understand how you feel but I have a feeling this LO is like this because somthing is not right in her home life. I am not sure if this was touched on in the post because i did not read all the pages.

I know this is your family but IMO kids don't do that type of stuff just because

Quoting applelove:" I can understand how you feel but I have a feeling this LO is like this because somthing is not right ... [snip!] ... post because i did not read all the pages. I know this is your family but IMO kids don't do that type of stuff just because"

I can say without a shadow of a doubt in my mind that nothing is going on. My niece has always had problems. She's always been off. But may God strike me dead, I know damn well that nothing is going on at home. My brother in law may not parent as he should (he isnt neglectful, but he could do better) but it's nothing that would really disrupt her that much. My sister would NEVER do anything to her babies, my nephew would never do anything to his sister. It's not even a worry to me because I know that nothing is going on.

I truly believe my niece has some Autistic like tendencies but my brother in law and sister are in denial about it. I can understand in some part you dont want to think something is wrong with your child.

So yeah, kids don't do this "just because" but that doesnt mean it's the family either. I know it's not the family, she's always been "off."

I hate my DH's nieces and nephew. They are so bad.. They always hit me for no reason. All of them at the same time (5) they would hit my belly when I was pregnant and say FAT GIRL!! They were 2-4 years of age at that time. They pull my hair and they jump on my bed. They scream and jump really loud while I'm sleeping. This is when I was pregnant. We moved out already. My SIL lets my MIL watch her kids and at that time we were living with MIL. They would spit on my food when it's dinner time. Take stuff out of my hand. Bang on our door when we shut it and won't stop banging until we open it. My MIL says they are just babies! She doesn't yell or anything. They would jump on me. Well attempt to. How I deal with it? Tell them stop and go away. But that's just like in one ear out the other. So I would roll my eyes at them and they would tell MIL that I hit them. I told DH and he said okay let's move. So we just did that. Haven't seen those monsters for a year almost.

Quoting FroggysMommy:" I can say without a shadow of a doubt in my mind that nothing is going on. My niece has always had problems. ... [snip!] ... don't do this "just because" but that doesnt mean it's the family either. I know it's not the family, she's always been "off.""

I was not implying that they are harming the kids in a physical type of way.
But maybe they are not giving the right type of attention or enough, maybe she needs more attention than other kids?
Maybe they are having problems and fighting a lot in front of the LO, that can make kids act out in ways to get attention. If the LO dose have some Autistic type of issues going on then things that a regular kid might not be bothered by would probably bother her more.

If she is and has always been "off" shouldn't the parents take her to dr's ect? I also understand denial but you have to do the best you can for your kids. Even if that means accepting somthing might be wrong.


I know it can be really hard to think that they are not the perfect parents, maybe that just don't know what to do? I don't known them but I do know that often when kids act out it is because they need more at home.

If this LO dose need some special care, maybe more than other kids need, maybe you can help push the parents towards getting that for her? Do you think that the LO dose need some extra special type of help?

No, I don't hate any kid   Hate is a very strong word.

Some of these poor kids sound like they have issues that need addressing.

Quoting applelove:" I was not implying that they are harming the kids in a physical type of way. But maybe they are not ... [snip!] ... can help push the parents towards getting that for her? Do you think that the LO dose need some extra special type of help? "

     

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♛Queen Boo♛:</b>" No, I don't hate any kid   Hate is a very strong word. Some of these poor kids sound like they have issues that need addressing."</blockquote>




Doesn't mean they aren't smurfs that we hate.

I don't think being a kid gets you a free pass for everyone to like you.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♛Queen Boo♛:</b>" No, I don't hate any kid   Hate ... [snip!] ... Doesn't mean they aren't smurfs that we hate. I don't think being a kid gets you a free pass for everyone to like you."

I'm not saying some kids are not annoying as hell but hate is such a strong word!

And now it goes onto another level. I knew she was asking a bunch of little boys out. She has been begging little boys to go out with her.

Well she told on boy she goes to middle school and is going to high school next year like him (when in reality she's in 6th grade, going into 7th). The little boy says that he doesn't want her as a girlfriend but hey, they can be friends with benefits.

He's trying to get her to meet up and get a blowjob. She is saying "Well we can be boyfriend and girlfriend in secret then if we do stuff."

She is so desperate for attention that she would sell herself short and "sell" out her body for a boyfriend... for acceptance.

My sister and I should be meeting up to get our hair dyed tomorrow and that's when I will be telling her that we have a problem.

My niece has problems... she really doesn't have the mental capacity to know when to say when.... this little girl is going to end up in a LOT of trouble. And soon.


 


Jesus Man, I didnt even know what a blow job or friends with benefits was at that age!