Nervous & scared
posted 2nd Mar
Well I'm 19 this is my second pregnancy the first I lost with a miscarriage . I'm nervous and terrified to lose another. It scared me even more when I caught the flu about a week ago "which caused my body to hurt badly" my back was throbbing makin me think it was my ovaries so I went to the emergency room and the said they tried to check to be sure it wasn't a tubal pregnancy but beings I was only 4 weeks the baby wasn't big enough to see just yet. He let me leave tellin me to check up with my OBGYN in 10 days but since I don't have Medicaid he won't see me till the 21st. I'm just extremely scared I'm gonna miscarry again. I don't think it's a tubal because I haven't had pain since that day. Idk I'm just freakin out about this everyday !?!?
quoteposted 2nd Mar
It will be okay, I lost a baby and four months later got pregnant again. I know have a happy healthy baby boy. I understand that it is worrisome, but try not to worry about it! Just eat healthy, cut out bad stuff and do the best you can. Its all you can really do!
quoteposted 3rd Mar
Women who have two miscarriages in a row still have an 80% chance of going on to deliver a healthy baby. Women who have had one I'd assume the chance of a positive outcome would be even higher.
Best of luck.
quoteposted 3rd Mar
I know I'm sure everything's fine. I'm just nervous because I didn't really expect the first miscarriage and my body didn't recognize I was having one so I didn't find out until we did an ultrasound and didn't find a heartbeat
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