Quoting Melissa A. Corron:" I say just take a deep breath. Pregnancy is bitter sweet and men don't understand what we go through. ... [snip!] ... down your arm if your squeezing hard enough. Hold it there until your headache subsides. Works for me and good luck to you "
he ended up waking up and he massaged my back...ended up being a massive knot in my shoulder blade..he massaged it so deeply that although the headache is almost completely gone I now can feel my muscle bruising....thanks for reading and letting me vent.