re: What would you do?? Supporting a babies head...

Quoting Marissa[+1]:" Just be sure to mention to EVERYONE before they hold your child to support their head! I don't think my bf knew to, so everytime right before he held our son I mentioned it. Now he'll never forget :0"

Most definitely!! I told SO that if someone does hold our LO when he's here and doesn't want to support the head after I tell them it needs to be done then they just won't hold him. I think she is going to be more cautious now, everyone was just so rude to her, and I mean hell they called her out and someone even pretty much called her a bad mom because of it and I don't think that is right, new mommies need help too   we have to learn too, and so hopefully it did help (which I feel like it did)...and I think even though my SO knows I will probably be reminding him everytime too lol!

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" You mind your own business and don't pass judgement over one thing. And if you're THAT concerned call CPS don't talk about her behind her back."

So watch and possibly let your friend's baby die or be severely hurt? Ya, sounds pretty smart. She's clearly worried about the baby whether it's hers or not. I would say something.

Quoting Due w/ a little boy!:" Most definitely!! I told SO that if someone does hold our LO when he's here and doesn't want to support ... [snip!] ... did help (which I feel like it did)...and I think even though my SO knows I will probably be reminding him everytime too lol!"

I agree with you. People are harsh on this site - don't take what people say to heart. You're just being concerned for your friend's baby's well being. I would be the same way. IMO, every mother should know to support their baby's head. I would think first time mothers would research a smurf load about newborns before having their baby. If you've seen them letting their lO's head flop around, I would say something. You're not criticizing or calling them horrible parents by all means. I would feel bad if I didn't say something and the baby was hurt later on because of it.

Quoting Marissa[+1]:" I agree with you. People are harsh on this site - don't take what people say to heart. You're just being ... [snip!] ... them horrible parents by all means. I would feel bad if I didn't say something and the baby was hurt later on because of it."

That is exactly how I told her I would have felt if I hadn't at least brought it to her attention. She told me I definitely didn't offend her because of the approach I took! I knew it could be harmful and that is why I thought it'd be helpful to at least inform her. Plus the whole CPS thing I mean I would feel like smurf and hate the person who called if they never even mentioned the issue to me. I mean if she didn't take the precautions after she knew then I would see it as a reason, but not just because she didn't know any better ya know? At least someone saw my point of why!

Quoting Marissa[+1]:" I agree with you. People are harsh on this site - don't take what people say to heart. You're just being ... [snip!] ... them horrible parents by all means. I would feel bad if I didn't say something and the baby was hurt later on because of it."

def agree with this!!*
i don't think she's even being mean about this? as a new mother myself, i would want someone to tell me if i was doing something wrong like that too! i understand the other girls on there were a little rude just calling her out about it, a message explaining why she shouldn't do that would be of been better. but not everyone is like that, atleast she did message her and explain it to her!!! atleast you are being a good friend and doing the message privately. not once did she even say anything mean on this post, she just asked what would you do if you saw it? geez. *rolls eyes* lol. and yeah people are def harsh on this site, i bet if you said "im having chicken for supper" they would freak out about it lmao.
idc what anyone says, i think your being a good friend to her and letting her know to support the babys head in a privite message, nothing wrong with it(:

Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" def agree with this!!* i don't think she's even being mean about this? as a new mother myself, i would ... [snip!] ... your being a good friend to her and letting her know to support the babys head in a privite message, nothing wrong with it(:"

And they assume they know me *rolls eyes as well lmao*...that is exactly what I was doing was looking for advice or ways to help me tell her without being rude or at least help with knowing what exactly the damage would cause! They just like to pick fights as much as they can with women like me lol. Thanks girl!

Quoting Due w/ a little boy!:" And they assume they know me *rolls eyes as well lmao*...that is exactly what I was doing was looking ... [snip!] ... what exactly the damage would cause! They just like to pick fights as much as they can with women like me lol. Thanks girl!"

lol your welcome! and yeahh, i swear ill post simple stuff, and there is ALWAYS atleast one women who starts something on the post. alwaysssss lol. but it's whatever, i just ignore it, get a good laugh out of it and move on  

Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" lol your welcome! and yeahh, i swear ill post simple stuff, and there is ALWAYS atleast one women who ... [snip!] ... starts something on the post. alwaysssss lol. but it's whatever, i just ignore it, get a good laugh out of it and move on  "

God as soon as my hormones are back to normal I hope I can just get a good laugh. Now I just feel bitchy and I go right back off at them lmao! I need to calm my angry ass down!!!!

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" Just because this is another friend of yours doesn't mean you aren't being a two-faced bitch. You are talking about your friends on a public forum behind their backs. You sound like a horrible friend."

   
with friends like her, who needs enemies?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" So watch and possibly let your friend's baby die or be severely hurt? Ya, sounds pretty smart. She's clearly worried about the baby whether it's hers or not. I would say something. "</blockquote>




Oh she's concerned with everyone's baby and other business.

Quoting Kiki~2boys:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" So watch and possibly let your friend's baby ... [snip!] ... it's hers or not. I would say something. "</blockquote> Oh she's concerned with everyone's baby and other business."

Her friend isn't everyone. She has a reason to be concerned if it's someone close to her. Yet again, she's looking out for the child's best interested. All of you posting negatives comments must not be good friends. From mother to mother/ friend to friend you SHOULD be worried about your friends baby and not just sit back and saying nothing.


Talking behind someone's back is when you say NEGATIVE smurf about them. She hasn't said anything negative. Last time I recall this site wasn't about bashing expecting mothers, or anyone in general. Half of you are most likely being hypocrites.

Quoting Marissa[+1]:" Her friend isn't everyone. She has a reason to be concerned if it's someone close to her. Yet again, ... [snip!] ... I recall this site wasn't about bashing expecting mothers, or anyone in general. Half of you are most likely being hypocrites. "

! to what you said on the last part!!! I soooo agree! They are bitches who just want to find someone to talk about when I bet they've vented about someone. I guess because I am worried about the baby I must be soooo horrible *rolling my eyes*

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" Her friend isn't everyone. She has a reason to be concerned if it's someone close to her. Yet again, ... [snip!] ... I recall this site wasn't about bashing expecting mothers, or anyone in general. Half of you are most likely being hypocrites. "</blockquote>




You could read this thread and see she said this isn't the same one she "usually talks about".

Quoting Kiki~2boys:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa[+1]:</b>" Her friend isn't everyone. She has a reason ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> You could read this thread and see she said this isn't the same one she "usually talks about"."

Oh and all of you are so much better since you all think it's ok to go and make a whole new thread about someone just because you don't like them and I am the immature one damnnnn, no I think she just realizes the real reason of it since she must have common sense.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Due w/ a little boy!:</b>" ! to what you said on the last part!!! I soooo agree! They are bitches who just want to find someone ... [snip!] ... when I bet they've vented about someone. I guess because I am worried about the baby I must be soooo horrible *rolling my eyes*"</blockquote>




Sure, everyone needs to vent from time to time. But you haven't said 'oh I'm just venting because this upset me' you keep asking for advice. Why do you need advice because your friend had sex and your shocked she wanted to so soon? Because she apparently can't even afford the baby she has? Because you THINK she's trying again just because her condom broke and she misses her baby belly? Because she thinks its gross to breast feed?
You don't need advice for any of that, you're just pointlessly talking about your friends and then trying to justify it by then bitching about their personality.
Sorry but it's your smurffy personality you need to worry about.