re: MAD !

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Blah blah blah. Shut up. Seriously, no one gives a smurf what your "opinions" are."

This.

Okay I know that this thread is over but i just wanted to say something. I recently posted in the abortion survivors forum about how I am pregnant from my recent rape and need to have an abortion. I had I think 3 people message me telling me I should give the baby up for adoption. Telling someone this will not change their mind at all. Talking about how it's a life and it wasn't their fault and stupid smurf like that, all it does is make the woman feel horrible about what she feels like she has to do. You aren't accomplishing anything. All you're doing is making yourself look like an insensitive smurf. You can have your opinions all you want but the abortion survivors forum is not the smurfing place to get on your high horse talking about how someone is killing a baby

<blockquote><b>Quoting Missy Anne:</b>" well im glad she picked one but until she had an abortion she could of decided otherwise, eitherway i ... [snip!] ... i wasnt being hateful im a momma of 2 babies and i was merely giving an option so you all need to just quit your ranting"</blockquote>

I didn't read the thread, just trolling TDC.


Question, if you're still around OP, you say abortion is killing a baby?
So, if you had a miscarriage someday, which i wouldn't hope on anyone, you would feel the same pain as if one of your living children was killed?
I mean, if there's no difference, it woul be the same right?



And in no way am i demeaning the pain of miscarriage, it's a horrible pain no one should feel. Just merely curious.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:</b>" Okay I know that this thread is over but i just wanted to say something. I recently posted in the abortion ... [snip!] ... but the abortion survivors forum is not the smurfing place to get on your high horse talking about how someone is killing a baby"</blockquote>




Report them to Mara they shouldn't be messaging you

Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Okay I know that this thread is over but i just wanted to say something. I recently posted in the abortion ... [snip!] ... but the abortion survivors forum is not the smurfing place to get on your high horse talking about how someone is killing a baby"

let mara know for sure who pmd you. i am sorry they did that. how smurfing rude and inconsiderate. I hope the piece of smurf that hurt you rots in hell and you can find peace.

<blockquote><b>Quoting annabelle509:</b>" let mara know for sure who pmd you. i am sorry they did that. how smurfing rude and inconsiderate. I hope the piece of smurf that hurt you rots in hell and you can find peace. "</blockquote>



Thank you. How do I find Mara?

Here you go hun -
http://members.baby-gaga.com/member5

That is totally deplorable what they did >.< I hope she bans the smurf out of them. I am so sorry you've had to go through this. The thought that I could be carrying my rapist's baby to term destroyed me every single day. I was never able to enjoy a single moment of my pregnancy and I had severe PPD afterwards until the Paternity test came back, they had to medicate me. It is NOT healthy for some people to go through that, and those people know who they are and they do what they need to do for themselves and their family. If I hadn't been in a relationship at the time, I would've had the abortion just for my own sanity. But there was a 50% chance it was my boyfriend's child so I couldn't bring myself to do it  
It's 13 years later, and I am 5 months pregnant with my husband's child. I STILL am not excited, I still haven't grasped that I am pregnant, I know it's because of what I went through before and I hate it. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy >.<

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Missy Anne:</b>" well im glad she picked one but until she had ... [snip!] ... right? And in no way am i demeaning the pain of miscarriage, it's a horrible pain no one should feel. Just merely curious."

i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, to me my miscarriage was horrible, i did nothing but sleep and cry for awhile, and if i were to loose my son i would feel the same way, the only difference would be that i had the joy of holding and caring for my son, where i didnt get that chance with my 1st baby


and this isnt directed at you, just a general question, how is a miscarriage the death of a baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????

Quoting isaac'smommy2013:" i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, ... [snip!] ... baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????"

I see a miscarriage and an abortion both cells. And I have had 2 miscarriages. They WOULD have become babies, but they were not babies at that time.

*sarcastic tone* I really love how it seems a lot of pro life people seem to assume that woman who decide that abortion is their best/only choice just do it and have no feelings about the issue what so ever.
They aren't emotionless monsters, it effects them a great deal, a lot of them require therapy afterwards. It is NOT an easy decision to make and it DOES effect the woman a lot.
I personally have not had one, but I have worked with survivors and had friends who have been in positions where for them, it was the only option. It is NOT simple, it is NOT easy and it is NOT done without a lot of consideration, debating and downright hating yourself at some point.

Quoting SaucyPoppet:" *sarcastic tone* I really love how it seems a lot of pro life people seem to assume that woman who decide ... [snip!] ... simple, it is NOT easy and it is NOT done without a lot of consideration, debating and downright hating yourself at some point."

Thank you <3

<blockquote><b>Quoting isaac'smommy2013:</b>" i do agree with her, hence why im reading this   abortion is murder plain and simple, by the time you even find out your pregnant the baby has a beating heart "</blockquote>




Not true, I found out when I was 3 or 4 weeks, had an ultrasound, guess what, saw only a yolk sac and it DID NOT, repeat DID NOT have a heartbeat but guess what, I was pregnant!   Shocking isn't it!?

Quoting isaac'smommy2013:" i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, ... [snip!] ... baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????"

Abortion or miscarriage...it didn't matter to me. Both are the end of pregnancy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:</b>" Okay I know that this thread is over but i just wanted to say something. I recently posted in the abortion ... [snip!] ... but the abortion survivors forum is not the smurfing place to get on your high horse talking about how someone is killing a baby"</blockquote>




I am so sorry those pathetic smurfs messaged you.   How completely arrogant and ignorant of them, god forbid should they ever go through what you did, guaranteed their asses will rethink what they spewed out of their disgusting mouths.

<blockquote><b>Quoting isaac'smommy2013:</b>" i understand this wasnt directed at me, but being someone who has a child and has also had a miscarriage, ... [snip!] ... baby when the women wants the baby but an abortion is getting rid of "parasitic cells" when the women doesnt want the baby????"</blockquote>


They're both cells.
One is cells you want and hope to grow into a baby. One is cells you want nothing to do with, so you get rid of them. Simple.