I met a guy. A perfect guy!!! N I really think I could be with him he wants to b my boyfriend he wants us to be committed and stuff. All that is great but the sex is smurfing wack!!!! How can I get over it?? Am I being shallow to give up a great guy over bad sex? && by bad I mean it's really little, he sweats alot, n I feel like....idk I feel dirty it makes me cry every time (only been twice tho)
sex is part of a relationship, if you aren't happy in the bedroom you won't be happy outside there either. You'll be finding a way to fulfill the need you are urging for. I wouldn't date someone whom I didn't connect with in the bedroom. I've been there and thought I'd try and i was miserable.
I personally couldn't. I mean if it was a decent size and he was just bad at it then there's ways room for improvement. But if its little and it sucks that much then no I would walk away. Sex is a big factor for me.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" why does it make you cry?"</blockquote>
That's the thing.... Idk!!! The first tine we did it, I literally busted out crying, I tried to cover it up but I know he saw the tears can. use he kept askin..... I know I have issues with bodily fluid lol n he sweats alot it just n made me feel really dirty..
Yikes... I am having problems because I married a guy because he was great in every other dept but horrible kissing and in bed...and it is still causing problems for me. I try to hide it but I'm not happy a lot of the time. And yours sounds way worse than mine LOL I would say, no its not shallow, sex is a part of happiness for most people, and unfortunately, you can't sacrifice it..i thought i could but it was more important than I thought.