bad sex (tmi)

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I met a guy. A perfect guy!!! N I really think I could be with him he wants to b my boyfriend he wants us to be committed and stuff. All that is great but the sex is smurfing wack!!!! How can I get over it?? Am I being shallow to give up a great guy over bad sex? && by bad I mean it's really little, he sweats alot, n I feel like....idk I feel dirty it makes me cry every time (only been twice tho)

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Lol! I have no clue what I would do.

why does it make you cry?

Ehh I was seeing a guy who was absolutely amazing BUT had a very, very small penis.. I knew I couldn't marry him because of that. Shallow or not, I just couldn't.

If its just the actual sex that's bad that could change over time though.. It's still new.. Maybe your bodies will get Insync after you get to know each other more?

IMO, sex is a huge factor. Us women need to be pleased too! Lol

Quoting Secret Service:" why does it make you cry?"

I'm assuming because he seems so great in every other way and lacks a ton in that area. I would cry too

OP is he good at other things?

How many times have you had sex? Sometimes it just takes getting to know someone... but if it's legit bad... that's rough and I'm sorry.   <3

Quoting The Doctor:" How many times have you had sex? Sometimes it just takes getting to know someone... but if it's legit bad... that's rough and I'm sorry.   <3"

That is true!

sex is part of a relationship, if you aren't happy in the bedroom you won't be happy outside there either. You'll be finding a way to fulfill the need you are urging for. I wouldn't date someone whom I didn't connect with in the bedroom. I've been there and thought I'd try and i was miserable.

Being intimate is a big part of a relationship , so I would call it quits :/

Ewww.

I personally couldn't. I mean if it was a decent size and he was just bad at it then there's ways room for improvement. But if its little and it sucks that much then no I would walk away. Sex is a big factor for me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" why does it make you cry?"</blockquote>




That's the thing.... Idk!!! The first tine we did it, I literally busted out crying, I tried to cover it up but I know he saw the tears can. use he kept askin..... I know I have issues with bodily fluid lol n he sweats alot it just n made me feel really dirty..

If the sex was so bad that I felt awful afterward and cried about it I would not further the relationship. No matter how nice a guy he is I need to feel good too, sorry.

Yikes... I am having problems because I married a guy because he was great in every other dept but horrible kissing and in bed...and it is still causing problems for me. I try to hide it but I'm not happy a lot of the time. And yours sounds way worse than mine LOL I would say, no its not shallow, sex is a part of happiness for most people, and unfortunately, you can't sacrifice it..i thought i could but it was more important than I thought.

eh, well doesnt this just suck. I would maybe give it a few more rounds and this time tell him what to do. IMO sex gets better the more comfortable you are with the person.