Quoting Clopton™:" Eating used condoms? Punched you in the face? He needs to be seen by a medical professional."
Quoting BBNO5NTHEOVEN:" Sooo my husband likes to do jujitsu on me in my sleep. Usually just puts me in some crazy hold and then .eating used condoms out of the trash.. [snip!] ... seriously!? How is this one MY fault!? He's always the first to say sorry... but I have a feeling after last night he won't be."
Quoting Addi's Momma:" Dh has issues like that. They started after boot camp. Once he jumped over the half wall at the top of ... [snip!] ... he wanted a divorce. I have been punched several times and thrown off the bed. He never remembers any of it and refuses help."
Quoting S U Z I E:" Does he have PTSD? Yeah, he needs to see someone ASAP!! I'm sorry, that's really a dangerous situation and I have no idea what I would do ...GL!"
Quoting BBNO5NTHEOVEN:" Is he still in the service? And bout the divorce stuff... I don't know how I would handle that!!! "
Quoting Addi's Momma:" He got out in December. It has gotten a little better since then but I still prefer sleeping alone. ... [snip!] ... alone. We try once in a while if he is ready to sleep next to me again but it usually ends up with me moving out to the couch."Hope it changes for you! This is just so sad! I understand his hurt... but where's the logic? I have to be safe. And it hurts me too... wish there was an easy answer here.