I am so upset :(

Pretty sure it's mainly hormones but I was so excited to see my baby for the first time on monday. I just want to know everything is ok, I haven't heard a heartbeat either so I have no idea if this pregnancy is working or anything. Well my appointment was supposed to be tomorrow but I had to change it as my oh couldnt make it and my mil who will take us and have my lb couldnt either. So I changed it to.monday. They have just phoned to say theyve moved it to tuesday which neither my oh or mil can do either!! I feel like Im never going to have this scan and see if my baby is ok. I just want a hug and my lb is napping and my oh is at work. Im just really nervous and was really excited for.monday and now I know itll be at least a week more!  

What's an oh or lb? Anyways is there anyone else who could give you a ride? And what about the bus? If you're going to have a baby you need to figure out transportation. Youll get around to the scan though! I know its rough waiting but is there a reason you think something is wrong?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber n dave:</b>" What's an oh or lb? Anyways is there anyone else who could give you a ride? And what about the bus? If ... [snip!] ... Youll get around to the scan though! I know its rough waiting but is there a reason you think something is wrong?"</blockquote>




lol she s from the uk
lb is ds and oh is dh

Why do they HAVE to he with you? Or it is a ride.?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber n dave:</b>" What's an oh or lb? Anyways is there anyone else who could give you a ride? And what about the bus? If ... [snip!] ... Youll get around to the scan though! I know its rough waiting but is there a reason you think something is wrong?"</blockquote>


I could.do the bus but its less the ride more her looking after my lb (ds lol) ad theyre not allowed in the scan room. I want my oh (dh) to be there for the first scan.as its a special.time and I couldnt deal with my lb on my own so he needs to even if my mil.isn't he's got.work all.week. Theyve rearranged for the 11th now which seems an age away!! Ive had 2 previous mcs and with my lb had 3 early scans to see he was ok due to my history so.I guess Im worried because of that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting GL♣PK:</b>" Why do they HAVE to he with you? Or it is a ride.?"</blockquote>


Someone needs to have my.lb while Im being scanned and I want.someone there just incase. I find it important that my oh is there with me for.my scans, we only have 2 and theyre a special.time. My lb isnt allowed in the scan room.so my mil will have my.lb.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MummyPenguin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting GL♣PK:</b>" Why do they HAVE to he with you? Or it is ... [snip!] ... with me for.my scans, we only have 2 and theyre a special.time. My lb isnt allowed in the scan room.so my mil will have my.lb."</blockquote>




Can you not just put your LO in a stroller? I have to do all of my appointments alone and I just bring a bunch of snacks. If its that important then you do what you need to do..

<blockquote><b>Quoting GL♣PK:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MummyPenguin:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting GL♣PK:</b>" ... [snip!] ... to do all of my appointments alone and I just bring a bunch of snacks. If its that important then you do what you need to do.."</blockquote>



I would.have to go on the bus for almost 2 hours (i live in the country, buses are few and far between) and then wait for the appointment for at least half an hour and then have a 20 minutes scan. My lb would never sit in a stroller for that long hes 15 mo and would need to run around at some point in the day, its not fair to keep him still all day. Also hes not allowed in the scan room! They dont allow children in full stop.and i.woiuldnt leave him.outside! So i need someone for sure to have him x