re: No father vs bad father

Quoting LynMarie.xo:" i said he has a dad never said he was a good dad...i would still rather he is involved in their life. ... [snip!] ... the father. Its differnt if the dad is a child molester.abusive obv. they should not be around their child unless they change"

So you bring up the child molester.... "unless they change," you are saying that a child molester shouldnt be around their kid but if they change it's all fine and dandy?

That's insane.

Quoting LynMarie.xo:" there is bad influneces everywhere hunni! and if my typing is so bad how coul u read my op huh? ;) ya right bitches learn to read without all ur pretty periods capitols and watnot ha u txt do u not"

You.... you are special. I don't mean special in the "Wow those are the coolest, most sparkly, special stickers ever!" You are special in the way that if I put you in a human gerbil ball and told you to go unwrap the present in the corner you'd be hauling ass, working those leftover pounds off from Christmas saying "gotta find that corner, gotta find that corner, where's that corner?" That kind of special.

Quoting FroggysMommy:" You.... you are special. I don't mean special in the "Wow those are the coolest, most sparkly, special ... [snip!] ... pounds off from Christmas saying "gotta find that corner, gotta find that corner, where's that corner?" That kind of special."

I seriously just cracked up at this.

Quoting Jax in the Tardis:" I asked my son's psychologist and he was stumped. WDYT? Is having no father better than having a bad father?"

i'd go w/ yes.

i had none and i feel it ended up being better than what would've happened had i been dealing w/ a bad male authority figure in my life - in a bad relationship w/ my mom.

<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" You.... you are special. I don't mean special in the "Wow those are the coolest, most sparkly, special ... [snip!] ... pounds off from Christmas saying "gotta find that corner, gotta find that corner, where's that corner?" That kind of special."</blockquote>


I just read your response to my husband and he wants to high-five you.