re: No father vs bad father

posted 26th Feb
Quoting Rydicule91:" Mmmm....I think having no father is worse. At least is he's a dead beat it teaches you not to be one...in most cases..."

I agree. I have two sisters (both biological). I don't drink, and my sisters rarely do. None of us have done drugs (other than my youngest sister experimenting with weed for a month, 2 years ago). My mom taught us what we didn't want to be, with her actions.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Arizona
posted 26th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting LynMarie.xo:</b>" have the father! the kid will learn when they are older not to be like them in the bad ways if you are ... [snip!] ... thing bc the dad is bad so it will spark the child to be anything but bc they dont want to be like that... just my opinion."</blockquote>




If that's true than why do so many men from single parent households end up in prison?
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I have 1 child & live in Greenville, South Carolina
posted 26th Feb
Bad father is worse. You can at least have good male role models in the place of no father.
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I have 2 kids & live in Ohio
posted 26th Feb
Bad father is WORSE.
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I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 26th Feb
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" that's not true. they could see that as acceptable behavior... "


they cooould but if the mom is a good parent and makes sure to raise her child with good morals and thinking it would most likely not be the case and if they do take after the father and were raised more with the mother it would most likely be jsut a fase and theyd come back to what they know is right.
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I'm due January 19th (a boy) & live in Ontario
posted 26th Feb
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" have the father! the kid will learn when they are older not to be like them in the bad ways if you are ... [snip!] ... thing bc the dad is bad so it will spark the child to be anything but bc they dont want to be like that... just my opinion."

Did you have a dad? Do your kid/s have their dad?
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I have 1 child & live in Djibouti
posted 26th Feb
Bad father is worse. Id rather my daughter have one good example, then one good and one bad example.
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I'm due November 15th, have 1 child & live in Zimbabwe
posted 26th Feb
Quoting Glo♥:" Well depends on what you mean by bad father. As in abusive (physically, emotionally, and/or sexually) or a dead beat that never gave a smurf?"

How is a dead beat dad that never gave a smurf any different from emotionally abusive?
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Djibouti
posted 26th Feb
I'd so much rather be raising a child on my own than raising one with a bad father.
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I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine
posted 26th Feb
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" they cooould but if the mom is a good parent and makes sure to raise her child with good morals and ... [snip!] ... father and were raised more with the mother it would most likely be jsut a fase and theyd come back to what they know is right."

You need to do some serious research in child development then. The numbers don't lie, more men end up in prison from single mother households than from any other family type. By your logic, that wouldn't be the case.
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I have 1 child & live in Indianapolis, Indiana
posted 26th Feb
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" Did you have a dad? Do your kid/s have their dad?"


why do you ask?? yes i have a dad as we all have a male sperm doner lol. yes my boy has a dad. but really why do u want 2 know?
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I'm due January 19th (a boy) & live in Ontario
posted 26th Feb
Quoting Thisperyears:" I'd so much rather be raising a child on my own than raising one with a bad father. "

DD's father is a terrible person. I'm glad he doesn't want smurf to do with her. Instead she has an awesome male figure in my SO and male relatives.
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I have 1 child & live in Indianapolis, Indiana
posted 26th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber :]:</b>" I would say yes. I didn't have a father, but many good father figures. I'm pretty okay with it. I have ... [snip!] ... pretty okay with it. I have cousins that have a pretty bad father, and I'm in fear that they'll become cerial killers.  "</blockquote>


Well you can't control their grocery habits.  





And i say a bad father is worse.
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 26th Feb
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" You need to do some serious research in child development then. The numbers don't lie, more men end ... [snip!] ... men end up in prison from single mother households than from any other family type. By your logic, that wouldn't be the case. "
 
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I have 1 child & live in Memphis, Tennessee
posted 26th Feb
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" You need to do some serious research in child development then. The numbers don't lie, more men end ... [snip!] ... men end up in prison from single mother households than from any other family type. By your logic, that wouldn't be the case. "


um im confuesd if its asingle mother household and their ending up in jail then wont u be advocating they are raised with the bad father rather than jsut a single mom lol?
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I'm due January 19th (a boy) & live in Ontario
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