Never been pregnant

I know a lot of people have infertility issues but some of you already have 1 or 2 biological kids. It's just not the same. You've at least been able to get pregnant before. I on the other hand have no idea why I cannot get pregnant. Sorry but this irritates me sometimes.

Have you seen a doctor to try and figure it out?

I understand being upset that you have fertility issues. But how does that make it okay to get irritated with people who have 1 or 2 kids already? Those kids are their lives.

Quoting Red Bottom:" I understand being upset that you have fertility issues. But how does that make it okay to get irritated with people who have 1 or 2 kids already? Those kids are their lives."

I think she is just having a hard time. I mean, there are people who don't deserve kids who get pregnant without trying and then some people who want them so badly and can't. I can understand why she would be frustrated.

Sorry? I understand that that would be difficult to go through, but it's not anyone's fault you aren't able to conceive...

Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" I think she is just having a hard time. I mean, there are people who don't deserve kids who get pregnant ... [snip!] ... pregnant without trying and then some people who want them so badly and can't. I can understand why she would be frustrated."

I hate when people say that. Nothing against you, it's just a pet peeve I guess, but how does someone who "doesn't deserve kids" have anything to do with someone who can't conceive?

Quoting bbbt:" I hate when people say that. Nothing against you, it's just a pet peeve I guess, but how does someone who "doesn't deserve kids" have anything to do with someone who can't conceive? "

I'm just saying I can see why she would be frustrated. People who abuse and kill their kids obviously don't deserve them.

Just my opinion though.

I understand your frustration. I was told I could never have kids when I was 14 by a doctor. I tried for 3 years with my ex fiance. And NOTHING. It was very frustrating and annoying seeing everyone else have kids. Was with BD for 2 months. Condom broke and BAM I got pregnant with DS.

Have you gone to see a doctor to find out why youre having issues?

You have a kid OP whether she is your biological kid or not shouldn't matter. Some people don't even get that lucky.

Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" I'm just saying I can see why she would be frustrated. People who abuse and kill their kids obviously don't deserve them. Just my opinion though."

Of course people who abuse kids don't deserve them, but they aren't preventing anyone from getting pregnant.

I've been the person you're irritated at and it hurts. My Co worker made my life a living hell during my pregnancy because I got pregnant with twins unplanned and she can't have kids... It's not my fault she can't and it doesn't mean I love my children any less then she would have...

I understand why you would be upset but I agree that it's not yours or anyone else's fault you haven't been able to conceive. If you do eventually wind up pregnant I doubt you would want someone else saying that you already have 1 and shouldn't have more.

Just like it isn't fair that you can't currently have kids, it isn't fair to put down those who can

Sorry you are having a hard time but this is a little offensive. Children or no children TTC and failing SUCKS.

I have 2 children from my first marriage but SO and I are trying for our first. I dont get frustrated that others are conceiving around me. And the feelings are no different IMO just because I already have kids. I feel like I am failing him..its a smurffy feeling PERIOD

I see exactly what you're saying. Has anyone given you a reason to why you haven't been able to get pregnant? I hope you get a bfp soon!

I somewhat understand. I´ve been pregnant before but my son lived for 11 hours only. I havent started TTC but I had some fertility testing done and turns out I have low ovarian reserve. So I really dont know how hard or if its even possible to get pregnant again. If my son was here it would definitely not feel so heartbreaking and lonely thinking of the possibility of never having another child again.