I love my husband, he's great. Right now he's cooking dinner after getting home from an 11hr day... that being said...
I hate that he sucks at holidays/gifts. I super rarely get a proper gift from him. For Xmas he got me an awesome serger (it's an expensive sewing machine) that I've wanted for so long... but then a few weeks later he budgeted badly and had to take it back. Told me he'd get me another later. He didn't get me anything for V-Day... I thought he'd make up for it since I got him something (it was small but very mindful of things he likes) but he hasn't. Mind you I'm not materialistic. I'd have been happy with a home made card... but he just. argh.
I'm about to just say screw it, we'll buy our own gifts for now on.
My SO is like that. He never budgets or plans ahead to get me anything.. Most of the time I end up getting nothing! it makes me sad because I always put thought in his gifts and surprise him. If he gets me something I always know what it is..he sucks at surprises and being romantic now.
Its sad because when we were in highschool and a year or so after he would get me flowers, write me poems, give me gifts, plan candle lit dinners and now....nothing. Boo