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poof..........

If you already had plans for tonight, why did you ask him what he was doing tonight? He probably thought you forgot.

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Rude of him but too clingy to say anything.

Since he's brand new I wouldn't say anything but I would keep it mind to make sure he doesn't have a pattern of making and 'forgetting' plans.

For me personally, that would be a red flag that the guy is flaky and I wouldn't pursue things further. I guess if I would tell him that it's annoying and rude to make plans with someone and blow them off.

I don't think there is anything "clingy" about saying uhm we made plans to tonight?? I don't think it has anything to do with him being a new guy or an established boyfriend or whatever as far as I'm concerned if even just a friend or anyone really had made plans with me I would mention it.

You texted him. You called him. You told him that you wanted to see him and got no invite. I wouldn't do or say another thing. If the guy wants to be with you then he will. Give him a chance to chase you. You're coming off a little desperate.

poooof!!!!!!!!!

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this.

Quoting Kimber-lily:" If you already had plans for tonight, why did you ask him what he was doing tonight? He probably thought you forgot. "

 

why dont people just say what they mean?

Honestly, they made plans to go to dinner and the guy blew her off to hang out with friends.

That's called rude in my book, whether it's a guy your dating, or a friend, a relative, whatever. It's rude.

I can pretty much bet that it's a sign of things to come.

Quoting Kaleighshaleigh:" You texted him. You called him. You told him that you wanted to see him and got no invite. I wouldn't ... [snip!] ... thing. If the guy wants to be with you then he will. Give him a chance to chase you. You're coming off a little desperate."

point taken.

yeah, I initially thought the same way...it wasn't until I talked to a friend of mine and he's all like.. you need to say something. that is really true, though.

That will probably just annoy him. I'd be upset. But, I'd let it pass this time..

He don't want you he wants a booty call

Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:" He don't want you he wants a booty call"

LOL!

I would so think this if we actually smurfed.

Whatever. There's bigger fish to fry. It's rude, but at the same time, it's very possible that he didn't know and meant no harm. Totally letting it go. Thanks!