Im 17 and have just started a from home degree in Law which is going to take me 4-5 years, its part time so works out to be about 4 hours a day and was going to get a job as well to do in the day.
Anyway I have just found out Im pregnant, im 17 and my boyfriend is 22 (not ilegal in my country) We got together a week after my 16th birthday, I met him as he was at uni in my home town but he finished last year and moved back to his original home town which is about a 4 hour drive from me so hardly ever see eachother (a few times a month) anyway ive just found out im 3 months pregnant (was on the pill) took several tests (the ones that tell you how far along you are) and they all say positive 3 months. I do not know what to do at all. I haven't told him because Im just so confused. I live at home with my mum and my 4 brothers in a 3 bedroomed house. I have my own room but my 3 brothers share and my mum and dad sleep in the other room with my youngest 1 year old brother so as you imagine its pretty cramped, Im already sat here worrying about how il move out (i have anxiety and OCD so i worry alot) im sat here worrying about how i will be able to afford to move out and if il even get a job after uni and all this worry is filling my head to the point where I cant take it anymore. Im so stressed out that my hair is literally falling out.
We had a pregnancy scare about a year ago (i wasn't pregnant) and he told me that he didn't want a child till we where married and had our own house etc etc as his family is really religious. He has a job at the moment but i dont think its enough for him to be able to get a mortgage pay the bills etc (he still lives with his mum) like what will happen? where will i go? what will happen about my degree? im just so so scared about everything i really don't know what to do, but i also feel if i dont have this baby then he might end up leaving me for someone older that he can move in with have a baby with sooner than me, im just so scard please help
she just became a member today, her about me section says shes 16 but her profile says shes 18 and on her post she says 17...Im lost lol but ive NEVER heard of a pregnancy test telling you how far along you are