Tickle my...what????

My brother in law lives with us right now and he gets his daughter every weekend for four days. She is a wild child. She is rude and disrespectful and teaching my son things like 'no' and 'mine' (I know he would have eventually learned it, but she has such an influence on him that it was hard to break him of it). She has been getting better but she still spends a lot of time in the corner. (spanking doesnt work. her parents spank her too much she doesnt even care anymore.)
oh, by the way she is two, turning three in april. My son is two, turning three in may. So very very close in age.
Today I heard her say 'Tickle my peepee'.
ahhhh...what? lol. I understand she doesnt understand why my son should NOT tickle her peepee. but ahhh....what?
I dont want to alarm her by saying its something horrible. I stopped it right away. (she was fully clothed). I told her she cant do that.
She wouldn't understand what is inappropriate. I couldnt explain it to her like that. and shes not even my kid.
I really dont know what to do about this. What worries me is that kids learn about their bodies and what feels good waaay too early. I know its normal, but I just dont want interaction between the two with that....
I have no doubt she understands that might feel good, she was without underwear last night (no idea why, it was all her dad. I asked her to put on underwear when she started trying to do summersaults) and she grabbed one of my sons base balls and sat on it and rolled it around...

maybe I am just weirded out because I am an adult and understand these things, and they might so its innocent. I dont know.
What should I do? especially considering this is NOT my kid.

I don't understand what you are asking. What should you do about what?

Tell her parents

Quoting Kimber-lily:" I don't understand what you are asking. What should you do about what?"

my two year old niece asking my son to tickle her private parts.

sounds like someone is doing stuff with this little girl that is NOT okay

Quoting saageex3:" Tell her parents"

This.

I would tell her Parents. It could be something innocent, something she learned herself, but what if it's not? They need to know.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" sounds like someone is doing stuff with this little girl that is NOT okay"

well they had been tickling each other just previous to this, so it could just be from that.
but either way, I am going to tell both her parents.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" sounds like someone is doing stuff with this little girl that is NOT okay"</blockquote>




Uh what? Why would you think that?

OP I would tell her mom or dad to talk to her about it and tell he why she can't do that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" I would tell her Parents. It could be something innocent, something she learned herself, but what if it's not? They need to know."</blockquote>




Seriously.

My daughter is 2 and she does not do stuff like that. I mean yeah she will touch herself whenever she is in the tub or we change her diaper, that's normal, but she doesn't say stuff like that. I don't think that is something a 2 year old just says. It could be innocent or it could be something more that needs to be looked into.

Quoting Blair Nealey:" My daughter is 2 and she does not do stuff like that. I mean yeah she will touch herself whenever she ... [snip!] ... that is something a 2 year old just says. It could be innocent or it could be something more that needs to be looked into."

Yeah my almost two year old dont say this neither does my two year old daughter

Quoting human making in progress:" My brother in law lives with us right now and he gets his daughter every weekend for four days. She is ... [snip!] ... these things, and they might so its innocent. I dont know. What should I do? especially considering this is NOT my kid. "

She is a freaking BABY! The way you are talking about this child is creeping me out. You are talking about her like these things are her fault and she has some sort of accountability. It appalls me that a 2 year old is being spanked at all, let alone so often it has no effect on her. This is all just disgusting.

Quoting Masturkate TTC:" She is a freaking BABY! The way you are talking about this child is creeping me out. You are talking ... [snip!] ... appalls me that a 2 year old is being spanked at all, let alone so often it has no effect on her. This is all just disgusting."

I have to agree with this... i just get red flags when i hear this situtaion maybe bc i was sexually abused and i know the signs and how normal behaviors are unless she is copying what others are say which in that case wtf is she watching or witnessing..

Quoting Masturkate TTC:" She is a freaking BABY! The way you are talking about this child is creeping me out. You are talking ... [snip!] ... appalls me that a 2 year old is being spanked at all, let alone so often it has no effect on her. This is all just disgusting."

I dont spank her I put her in the corner. I cant stop my brother in law or his ex from spanking their child.

and as for what she said, I know its not her fault. thats why I was asking how to go about it. if you read my post, you would see that I put 'I understand that she does not understand...'