nervous

Short version..
Hubby and i split well over a year ago... in that time we both moved on i had a baby he is having a baby.... we tried once to get back.together and it didnt work out he lived outta state for awhile... well he broke up with gf hooked up with chick from his work... we started hangin out and talking more and we want to be together.... its very scary! We have done some horrible smurf to each other but we cant stay away from each other and its so obvious whej we are together we love each other still... well after less than 2 wks chick from work has flipped her lid! She cosigned a truck for him and she thought they had a future she fell in love with him.... he told her i found out about them and am gonna keep our daughter away from him if he stays with her... he found out her daddy has been in prison for murder.... she is psycho!!! Granted he is no angel lol but wow!! We are getting a place this weekend and im just scared.... what if this chick comes after me... i have kids to worry avout.i could kick gos ass for getting himself in this mess..
I know this sounds horrible amd i may be an idiot... please dont be harsh... i just dont know how to handle crazy bitches...

Quoting justsotired2013:" Short version.. Hubby and i split well over a year ago... in that time we both moved on i had a baby ... [snip!] ... I know this sounds horrible amd i may be an idiot... please dont be harsh... i just dont know how to handle crazy bitches..."

1. I somehow doubt that she will come after you.
2. You have no right to keep your child from him. If he made that child with you then he has just as much a right to see that child as you do unless a court orders otherwise. If it's not his child, then meh.

Oh and if she does try anything..call the cops?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:</b>" 1. I somehow doubt that she will come after you. 2. You have no right to keep your child from him. If ... [snip!] ... then he has just as much a right to see that child as you do unless a court orders otherwise. If it's not his child, then meh."</blockquote>




No he just told her that to get rid of her... ive never kept our daughter from him... i told him to tell her the truth but he had already told her that

Quoting justsotired2013:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:</b>" 1. I somehow doubt that she will come after ... [snip!] ... to get rid of her... ive never kept our daughter from him... i told him to tell her the truth but he had already told her that"

That's good. Honestly, I don't think you have too much to worry about. And if she does try anything then call the police, get a restraining order, whatever.

<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:</b>" 1. I somehow doubt that she will come after ... [snip!] ... to get rid of her... ive never kept our daughter from him... i told him to tell her the truth but he had already told her that"</blockquote>




Telling her he didn't want to see her anymore because he just wasn't into her would've been a better solution, and he wouldn't have had to involve you and your kids...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:</b>" ... [snip!] ... because he just wasn't into her would've been a better solution, and he wouldn't have had to involve you and your kids..."</blockquote>


Thats what i said.... she was the dumbass who fell in love knowing you had jist broke up with your pregnant gf and have a wife and 4 kids..... im sorry but if i wasnt married to him i wouldnt get involved with someone with that mich baggage!! She must be really hard up....

Now i have to worry about telling my parents we are moving out... they hate him and arent talking to me right now because i stayed with him Saturday night.... i just cant wait to be in our house!!!

sounds like a big huge clustersmurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" ... [snip!] ... sorry but if i wasnt married to him i wouldnt get involved with someone with that mich baggage!! She must be really hard up...."</blockquote>




I still don't understand why he told her that

<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:</b>" 1. I somehow doubt that she will come after ... [snip!] ... to get rid of her... ive never kept our daughter from him... i told him to tell her the truth but he had already told her that"</blockquote>




So he purposefully put you and your kids in danger to protect himself.

What a keeper

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks ... [snip!] ... with that mich baggage!! She must be really hard up...."</blockquote> I still don't understand why he told her that"</blockquote>


He said so not to directly involve me.... uh yea ya did dumbass lol like i said she is psycho!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" ... [snip!] ... her that"</blockquote> He said so not to directly involve me.... uh yea ya did dumbass lol like i said she is psycho!!!"</blockquote>



He sounds, and this is going to seem harsh but it's the only way I can think to put it, like a coward.

Quoting Cheeks mom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks ... [snip!] ... He sounds, and this is going to seem harsh but it's the only way I can think to put it, like a coward."