re: nervous

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks ... [snip!] ... He sounds, and this is going to seem harsh but it's the only way I can think to put it, like a coward."</blockquote>




Not harsh at all..... he just dont know how to deal with smurf sometimes... i told him to get rid of her and it was my idea to say i was making him choose...

<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" ... [snip!] ... dont know how to deal with smurf sometimes... i told him to get rid of her and it was my idea to say i was making him choose..."</blockquote>




I don't think he sounds ready to be in a commited, adult relationship. Have you considered postponing moving in together until he's proven that he really is ready for it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks ... [snip!] ... adult relationship. Have you considered postponing moving in together until he's proven that he really is ready for it?"</blockquote>



There is no way we could work out as long as he is living with his ex.... he has no family and nobody he can stay with.... yea its a very effed up situation but i honestly think once we are in our own place dont have drama everyday it will be fine... he seems so much different this time around compared to last year...

<blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" ... [snip!] ... our own place dont have drama everyday it will be fine... he seems so much different this time around compared to last year..."</blockquote>



You need to consider if that's the best situation for your son, as well. It sounds like he really took advantage of his coworker, too. I hope it all works out for the best, and I also hope you're going into it with your eyes wide open, you know?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks ... [snip!] ... coworker, too. I hope it all works out for the best, and I also hope you're going into it with your eyes wide open, you know?"</blockquote>




Ive done alot of thinking.... what he did to her he never has done anything like that to me.... the way he talks to these girls he has never spoke to me that way... even at our worst... he has always been different with me....