Is it fair or the right thing to do in this situation? Or wa

Nvm I'll post this I. First person

He can't force her to abort. No one can.

In this particular situation did they get married and only afterwards he expressed he wanted no kids?

If not and she knew all along, shame on her

She did something he didn't want to do. Get pregnant with another child.

So no. Double standard right there, and she's completely in the wrong. I'd leave her too

It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when your partner doesn't want a baby.
It's her choice whether or not to terminate, but no she doesn't have a right to be angry at him. He made it clear that he didn't want a kid, and if she said she was on the pill but wasn't, then of course he's going to be upset. It's his life too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" He can't force her to abort. No one can. In this particular situation did they get married and only afterwards he expressed he wanted no kids? If not and she knew all along, shame on her"</blockquote>




No they never were married whats that got to do with anything?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" He can't force her to abort. No one can. In this particular situation did they get married and only afterwards he expressed he wanted no kids? If not and she knew all along, shame on her"</blockquote>




Why does it matter if they're married or. NOt. No kids = no kids.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when your partner doesn't want a baby. It's her choice whether ... [snip!] ... he didn't want a kid, and if she said she was on the pill but wasn't, then of course he's going to be upset. It's his life too."</blockquote>



But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk.

And this doest belong In AS

Well if they got married and he never told her he didn't want kids and she flu d out after I would feel for the girl. But still, 2 wrongs wouldn't make a right.

First of all it was a very stupid thing for her to do, and she did trick and try to trap him. He was 100% right in leaving her regardless if she aborts. That being said, he cant force her to do anything. If she wants the baby she should keep it, but only if she is ready to be a single parent.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when ... [snip!] ... But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."</blockquote>




And "she" forced him into trying to parent an u wanted child. She is in the wrong. Not him. And never him

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when ... [snip!] ... But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."</blockquote>


Well she should have been prepared to parent on her own doing what she did.

She isn't getting an abortion because he is making her. She would be getting one because she can't support a child.

If I were the guy I wouldn't even go back to her if she aborted. How deceitful.

Op are you in this situation?

Quoting Jessicalane19:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when ... [snip!] ... But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."

If she knew he didn't want kids and she conceived anyway knowing he didn't kids and that she would be worse off single its her own damn fault.

I have to agree it is wrong and dirty as hell to try and trap a man into parenting. She gets no sympathy from me.