Is it fair or the right thing to do in this situation? Or wa

posted 25th Feb
Nvm I'll post this I. First person
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Feb
He can't force her to abort. No one can.

In this particular situation did they get married and only afterwards he expressed he wanted no kids?

If not and she knew all along, shame on her
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I'm due August 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Newcastle, Australia
posted 25th Feb
She did something he didn't want to do. Get pregnant with another child.

So no. Double standard right there, and she's completely in the wrong. I'd leave her too
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Boston, Massachusetts
posted 25th Feb
It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when your partner doesn't want a baby.
It's her choice whether or not to terminate, but no she doesn't have a right to be angry at him. He made it clear that he didn't want a kid, and if she said she was on the pill but wasn't, then of course he's going to be upset. It's his life too.
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I'm due August 20th (a girl), have 1 child & live in District of Columbia
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" He can't force her to abort. No one can. In this particular situation did they get married and only afterwards he expressed he wanted no kids? If not and she knew all along, shame on her"</blockquote>




No they never were married whats that got to do with anything?
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" He can't force her to abort. No one can. In this particular situation did they get married and only afterwards he expressed he wanted no kids? If not and she knew all along, shame on her"</blockquote>




Why does it matter if they're married or. NOt. No kids = no kids.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Boston, Massachusetts
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when your partner doesn't want a baby. It's her choice whether ... [snip!] ... he didn't want a kid, and if she said she was on the pill but wasn't, then of course he's going to be upset. It's his life too."</blockquote>



But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk.
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Feb
And this doest belong In AS
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Boston, Massachusetts
posted 25th Feb
Well if they got married and he never told her he didn't want kids and she flu d out after I would feel for the girl. But still, 2 wrongs wouldn't make a right.
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I'm due August 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Newcastle, Australia
posted 25th Feb
First of all it was a very stupid thing for her to do, and she did trick and try to trap him. He was 100% right in leaving her regardless if she aborts. That being said, he cant force her to do anything. If she wants the baby she should keep it, but only if she is ready to be a single parent.
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I have 2 kids & live in North Highlands, California
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when ... [snip!] ... But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."</blockquote>




And "she" forced him into trying to parent an u wanted child. She is in the wrong. Not him. And never him
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Boston, Massachusetts
posted 25th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessicalane19:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when ... [snip!] ... But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."</blockquote>


Well she should have been prepared to parent on her own doing what she did.

She isn't getting an abortion because he is making her. She would be getting one because she can't support a child.
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I'm due August 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Newcastle, Australia
posted 25th Feb
If I were the guy I wouldn't even go back to her if she aborted. How deceitful.
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I'm due August 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Newcastle, Australia
posted 25th Feb
Op are you in this situation?
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I'm due August 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Newcastle, Australia
posted 25th Feb
Quoting Jessicalane19:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stfu Shirley:</b>" It's dirty as hell to try to conceive when ... [snip!] ... But he basically tried to pressure her into it knowing without him she wouldn't have as many resources idk."

If she knew he didn't want kids and she conceived anyway knowing he didn't kids and that she would be worse off single its her own damn fault.

I have to agree it is wrong and dirty as hell to try and trap a man into parenting. She gets no sympathy from me.
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I have 2 kids & live in Manns Harbor, North Carolina
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