Quoting Kayley (It's a girl!):" I'm probably over thinking this too much but did you get the same collection for your stroller, carseat, ... [snip!] ... did you just buy different pieces? If you got a collection, any suggestions for a girl? I can't seem to find anything I like!"
it was always too exspensive unless you found someone on craigslist selling them all ...I never had a need for half the crap in a collection anyway just needed a few pieces like a stroller and carseat which I ended up hating travel systems and I had and still swear by a good pack n play it depends on you as a mommy