re: I don't know my SO..

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" Lol, you are over reacting. "</blockquote> Okay. I'm done over reacting.. Maybe I'll just let it go"

You honestly don't have to 'let it go', but you do need to stop over reacting. Have a conversation with him. Don't point fingers, or be mad. Try to understand. If you just jump the gun he will never tell you anything, and situations like this will continue to come up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" already?"</blockquote> He said he was part of one just because he was bored.. I see 5..."</blockquote>




Why are you trying to trap him in a lie. Just say "I googled you and found 5 profiles on dating websites". Just tell him what you know and let him explain himself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" I wouldn't make him do anything, he wouldn't have to do it. Go ahead & be insulting though lol. I don't trust anyone 100% except my mom *shrug*"</blockquote>


You said a few posts back that you would make him prove it. And I didn't insult anyone. Why would you be with someone and have children with someone you don't trust 100%?

Quoting SavageDarling:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" I wouldn't make him do anything, ... [snip!] ... him prove it. And I didn't insult anyone. Why would you be with someone and have children with someone you don't trust 100%?"

well then 'make' was the wrong word. lol I still don't see how it's over-reacting. I wouldn't just say, oh you have 5 dating profiles? but you don't use them at all? oh okay, cool. lmfao.

& that's just my personal philosophy. I'd still say I trust him 99%. I don't care if no one else understands it

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" so he specifically said 1...? "</blockquote>




He said he had one.. And I'm being honest with him telling him I looked him up

Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" so he specifically said 1...? "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... specifically said 1...? "</blockquote> He said he had one.. And I'm being honest with him telling him I looked him up"

idk it sounds kind of weird to me... but I would wait to talk to him in person

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" well then 'make' was the wrong word. lol I still don't see how it's over-reacting. I wouldn't just say, ... [snip!] ... lmfao. & that's just my personal philosophy. I'd still say I trust him 99%. I don't care if no one else understands it"</blockquote>



If that works for you guys then great. I personally would not spend my life with someone I couldn't trust 100%. My hsuband has never, in the 7 1/2 years we've been together, given me a reason to distrust him over anything. Until he does, I have total faith in him and if we were in the same situation as OP and he said "oh their old. I don't use them" I would believe him and drop it.
Op's boyfriend lied, but I'm guessing it has something to do with the way she asked him about it. She clearly knew something and was suspicious, he didn't know how muh she knew and didn't it to turn into a whole thing. What she should have done is said, in person, "I found 5 dating profiles under your name. What's up?" And let him explain.
Also op, I know this is unlikely but I have a profile on MySpace with my name age and my photos that I never made. I know it's rare but other people can make profiles for people without their knowledge. It's uncommon and I doubt it happened four times lol, but its a possibility. Just be open minded, give him all the information you have, and let him explain himself.

Quoting SavageDarling:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:</b>" well then 'make' was the wrong word. ... [snip!] ... four times lol, but its a possibility. Just be open minded, give him all the information you have, and let him explain himself."

yea, I wouldn't do anything via text or over the phone. & definitely not be automatically argumentative about it.

Did he join the dating sites... BEFORE he met you? I mean you've only been together for 2 years that's not a long time.

Quoting £egendary £ex [89%]:" idk it sounds kind of weird to me... but I would wait to talk to him in person"

Ikr....

I think you are over reacting. He probably has the dating sites from before he met you and yes they do update your age automatically.... Just like pretty much everything on the net. As for the Sister you say it's on his Dad's side and he doesn't speak/really know his Dad so why would he bring up a woman who is most likely a virtual stranger to him? You also have to consider the fact that if he basically has no relationship with his Father he may not even know he has a Sister. I don't know my Father really as he was never around and he has 2 other Son's, so yes technically they are my brother's but I don't know them. I only know the brother I was brought up with so I say I have 1 brother, not 2..... I honestly couldn't tell you if I told DH in the first few years I had 2 other "brothers", why would I? DH also has many brothers and sisters on his Father's side but again he barely knows him so he actually has no idea how many there is and wouldn't recognise them if they walked down the street. So yes I think you should settle down a bit, whole situation seems perfectly innocent.