Quoting kate & tilly:" I don't have any articles to give you. And to be honest I wouldn't bother showing them to her. Just tell her she's your baby you're going to parent her as you see fit and her opinion is obsolete."
Quoting ♥ Mrs. S ♥:" Showing her articles might not change her mind. Can you wear your baby?? Sometimes that is the only way I could get things done. "
Quoting saageex3:" Is she a parent? Cause if she isn't I'd tell her to shove it. Actually I'd probably tell her either way to shove it lol"
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Your baby is spoiled because you lay her on sheets of satin, not because you don't let her CIO. But ... [snip!] ... You can really just Google and find a lot too."Lol I told everyone you can't spoil a baby. My grandma practically spat "bullsmurf!!" at me haha. She made DD cry while she was holding her, and told her you can't have your mommy, that's all you want, you spoiled girl. I was almost in tears and finally just pulled her out of my grandma's arms. She was like oh you got mommy fooled but not me, I know what you were doing.
Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria:" Lol I told everyone you can't spoil a baby. My grandma practically spat "bullsmurf!!" at me haha. She ... [snip!] ... she said she's fine so that's proof enough apparently for CIO haha. I love the "we're fine, she will be too" band wagon hahah."
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Ummm I nver thought I would say this, but I'm pretty sure I would slap my Granny if she ever said/did some smurf like that..."
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Ummm I nver thought I would say this, but I'm pretty sure I would slap my Granny if she ever said/did some smurf like that..."Yeah it was horrific. I knew DD was tired and I just wanted to hold her and let her nurse to get down for her nap. And my grandma was not having it. Like I said, she thinks non CIO is complete BS and isn't afraid to say it. She always says wait till I let her babysit, but what she doesn't know is she is never babysitting her, honestly I can't trust her. Sad but true.
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Lol. If my grandmothers were alive to pull some smurf like that, you bet your ass I'd slap them. Respect your elders, my ass. MY child MY parenting rules. You don't keep my kid away from me."I know, reasons 1-10 why I won't let her babysit. All of them being, she scares me haha. She's too old fashion for me, she also said I should start solids at 3 months or I'd starve DD, and that I should get my milk evaluated because DD is so big I might need formula. Otherwise she'll just get fat. Cause that's what her dr told her when she was BFing my dad.
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Everyone told me I needed to let DS "cry it out" when he was still a NB Idiots. However, I eventually ... [snip!] ... them to shove it sideways, and that it is up to you to decide how you want to parent your child. Also no infant is "spoiled"."I got told that too when she was a few weeks old. I never even considered. I don't now either. And aww, yeah I don't think it's for me. She fusses at night for a few seconds. If it gets more cry-ish than just whimpers I go in immediately. I can't stand to make her cry if she needs me.