Quoting Up In Smoke Signals:" Can you just....not sign the paper or whatever? I don't know much about it obviously but I would think ... [snip!] ... WHOLE name. You should have some say so in his health. I mean what can Jason do.....go get him circ'd when you're not looking?"
Quoting pilot Jess:" Maybe just hear him out like you would want to be listened to. That may be enough for him to let you ... [snip!] ... to any disagreement. You wouldn't be happy if he wouldn't let you give you opinion, so listen to his and see where you meet."
Quoting andthesenights:" I don't know the situation but I'd simply refuse to do it. I wouldn't discuss it further. I'd not sign ... [snip!] ... I was not planning on having it done. If the father somehow tried to do it behind my back.. well, that'd be the end of that. "
Quoting kr.r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting andthesenights:</b>" I don't know the situation but I'd simply ... [snip!] ... let anyone, including my partner, put my son through a world of pain to make something "look good." So shallow and so horrible."
Quoting KNZ.:" oh, it's not going to happen. i just know the discussion will come up again & want tips on it not ... [snip!] ... jason can't handle clara getting those heel prick blood draws..but he doesn't think twice about cutting something off our kid."
Quoting pilot Jess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" ...i never said i didn't hear his side already. ... [snip!] ... with what he wants. Maybe give him the fact that he won't be made fun of because lots of parents aren't circ'ing anymore."