Too much sex... Not enough?

It's like I always want to have sex. We usually do it in the morning every day or every other day... only rare instances of going longer than that without. But it doesn't matter. It's like we do it in the morning and then that night when we're in bed together, I just can't help but think about it... I usually try to kiss him or touch him, but it doesn't work. I guess I can't blame him... It's too much. Yet not enough for me. It was like that with my ex husband too... I just want sex too much. And yeah, I take care of my own whenever I need to and have the opportunity. It's never enough. We don't actually have intercourse every time... A lot of times, especially lately, just oral.

This sucks. I actually told him when we started dating a year ago that I like sex... a lot. And I like to have sex... a lot. And we do have sex... a lot. So I don't know what the problem is. I'm happy with our sex life... It just seems like there's always room for more to be happening, though... and, really it seems like a normal person would think that the amount of sex we have already is too much.

Do u have any past issues that could be affecting your sexual desires? Do you feel that is how you prefer to be shown affection and love?

I understand, I'm not wanting it as much as you, but I've kind of given up. My husband is good with 2 or 3 times a month, and I'd like it 5 times a week. I just have stopped trying. It's upsetting to be turned down.

Everyone has different drives, and I have accept this as I love him very much.

Quoting lolajessup:" Do u have any past issues that could be affecting your sexual desires? Do you feel that is how you prefer to be shown affection and love?"

Well, gee, I don't know. What is an example of a past issue that would cause this... I have no idea, but I don't think so.

I like his affection and love however he chooses to show it... and he does in many ways. He's a very considerate, loving man.... whom I really like to have sex with... often.

I was in a very similar situation with my ex. It was something that made me pretty unhappy and of course I hated being rejected. Don't have any advice because it was never resolved really. Anddd now i'm single and haven't had sex in 2 years. Lol

I guess I'm not normal either lol. I want it all the time too, and while my DH is able to 'keep up' with my desires some of the times, its frustrating. I don't really know what to do about it either. I'll be watching the thread to see if anyone does have any ideas. Just know this doesn't make you wierd or not normal. I was worse when I was pregnant. Now its probably 4 times a week once a day. I guess if I got my way the house wouldn't get clean or I'd never go to work, so I try to deal ;-)

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Purple Penguin:</b>" Well, gee, I don't know. What is an example of a past issue that would cause this... I have no idea, ... [snip!] ... to show it... and he does in many ways. He's a very considerate, loving man.... whom I really like to have sex with... often."</blockquote>


Idk something that could be causing j deyibg feelings that u need sex. But maybe if you just love him so much u just can't keep your hands off him haha!!