Quoting love button:" thanks! ya i realize that they have very high expectations for a surrogate mother but just wondering what the general expectations are during the pregnancy. "
I think doctor visits an things like that are up to the surrogate parent. The family cannot force thier way into your appointments, but you also have to remember it is their child. I have heard of some cases where the surrogate had to sign papers saying she will not drink, do drugs, or partake in any dangerous activities.